Just buy something else then. Nobody is presenting the 9800X3D as anything other than the best gaming CPU, which it is. All the reviewers put it up against 10-20 other CPUs and most test thermals and power consumption, 1% lows along with 7-zip, Davinci Resolve etc productivity performance. There are entire videos/articles/posts explaining why they test at 1080p. You have all the resources, just the same as the other people who have upgraded recently.
You've got to the point where you've trawled the internet to find something that validates your position of not buying a 9800X3D (which you don't need validation on, it's perfectly legitimate) and you've ended up at UserBenchmark. The comically anti-AMD website which has been widely mocked and is the David Icke of hardware publications, as has been pointed out.
If you want my opinion (as someone who has managed to upgrade without a weird agenda) then you can look at the 7000X3D chips (the 7800X3D is more power-efficient and cooler than the 9800X3D, info provided from the usual reviewers), 9700x, 7700x, Intel 13th or 14th gen are still competitive if you're comfortable with the well-publicised issues (which from what I gather, if you buy new and apply the necessary updates, shouldn't be a problem?) or wait until the AL lineup goes down to a sensible price. But it depends what you're upgrading from - if it's a 10 year old CPU for example, then you really don't need to go mental.