Is 3 days of zero contact with someone you are seeing acceptable?

Yes, i dont understand the need to be in constant contact. I am me, not us. Luckily, she feels the same way.
 
It's not the three days that are important here. It's:

1. That his behaviour has suddenly changed from communicative to non-communicative.

2. Knows it's important to her but is unapologetic.

Neither is a good sign.
 
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Nix said:
It's not the three days that are important here. It's:

1. That his behaviour has suddenly changed from communicative to non-communicative.

2. Knows it's important to her but is unapologetic.

Neither is a good sign.
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Yeah, agreed. Those are significant changes in behaviour which would suggest something has changed.
 
Nix said:
It's not the three days that are important here. It's:

1. That his behaviour has suddenly changed from communicative to non-communicative.

2. Knows it's important to her but is unapologetic.

Neither is a good sign.
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We only know one side of the story, maybe her behaviour suddenly changed from loving to oppressing? Seems he's done a stellar job, she's already sent out the orbiters after him for information.
 
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Tosno said:
We only know one side of the story, maybe her behaviour suddenly changed from loving to oppressing?
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It's a possibility, but I've known her for a year, and she super chilled, he want to spend a weekend with his buddies, and she'd be fine with it and do her own thing, she just feels that 3 days of nothing is weird, and the fact he doesn't seem to think it weird, even weirder.

I would never go 3 solid days of no contact with someone I was seeing, or accept vice versa.
 
he probably just wanted to tap that ass, he came, he saw, he tapped and decied he was bored and wanted to tap some new ass.....

he probably just played the role of being the kind type so he could tap dat ass in the first place.
 
Perhaps he's been put off a bit by her neediness and overly concerned house-mate? I don't blame him.
 
OP it doesn't matter, even if you convince her that he's been a douche you're still clearly in the friend-zone here
 
Did something happen last time they were together she has neglected to mention?

Sounds like it may have. Or he just wants a bit of space.

If she didn't want to contact him for a few days I bet she wouldn't expect all this fuss from him.
 
krooton said:
It's a possibility, but I've known her for a year, and she super chilled, he want to spend a weekend with his buddies, and she'd be fine with it and do her own thing, she just feels that 3 days of nothing is weird, and the fact he doesn't seem to think it weird, even weirder.

I would never go 3 solid days of no contact with someone I was seeing, or accept vice versa.
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I would. Different people are different.
 
Maybe he was waiting on her contacting him. It took her 3 days then he responded.
 
She probably does what a lot of women do and expect the man to contact first, it would be different if she contacted him and he ignored her but it simply sounds like she didn't attempt to contact him and then is upset he hasn't contacted her.

Communication goes both ways.
 
That's the thing about dating: Even if you're really keen you should avoid incessant texting and phoning because it'll look bad if you don't keep it up as the relationship progresses.

His inconsistent way of communicating is setting off alarm bells whereas she might have just burned him out on their weekend together and he wanted a bit of time alone.
 
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