Some interesting comments and 11 pages, we are an opinionated lot!!
I think I am with those who said force him to pull a sickie and get his act together. Some interesting comments and 11 pages, we are an opinionated lot!!
Christ almighty everyone is so self-righteous. The guy was the definition of a ****. If he didn't want the sack, he shouldn't have drank before work. Simple as that
It's really quite mad that people don't think this would be normal course of action. I dunno what kind of places people work in. But going direct to the boss after chatting to someone personally is NOT the best way
I don't understand the people calling the OP a coward
The cowardly thing to do would be ignore it and hope it goes away.![]()
No the cowardly nothing to do was sit smugly listen to some yop telling him had as few beers before work, then not, having the guts to call him on it right there, no he rather slid along to boss and asked for a few cookies and milk.
I would have serious doubts about his character, worse still he refers to this guy as a m8, I would have no issue with this guy had he done this right.
And if he worked for me this is what I would judge as the correct way in handling this
Again if I was his boss his behavior /character in this would always be under question.
Again I will say he only put this on here for vindication of his acts he want to be perceived as the hero and not the snake!
No the cowardly nothing to do was sit smugly listen to some yop telling him had as few beers before work,
No the cowardly nothing to do was sit smugly listen to some yop telling him had as few beers before work, then not, having the guts to call him on it right there, no he rather slid along to boss and asked for a few cookies and milk.
I would have serious doubts about his character, worse still he refers to this guy as a m8, I would have no issue with this guy had he done this right.
And if he worked for me this is what I would judge as the correct way in handling this
a) soon as he was told this he should have taken.his mat back home or dropped him off there saying do not come to work under the influence.
b) when arriving at work he should then have alerted either his boos or the HR of the situation
This guy may still have lost his job, thats not the OP fault, it never was the only thing the OP is guilty of is his handling of this.
Again if I was his boss his behavior /character in this would always be under question.
Again I will say he only put this on here for vindication of his acts he want to be perceived as the hero and not the snake!
Grow up.
The worst thing you can do is know that you're going to handle heavy machinery that is potentially deadly if you're not in full control, and then go and have some drink (possibly enough by the sounds of it to put the friend over the drink drive limit), thus massively increasing the risks to everyone.
There is a very good reason many jobs that require you to handle heavy machinery have a very strict drink/drug policy, the risks are too high for anyone to be using them when they are potentially operating with impaired judgement (there are enough serious incidents with things like fork lift, plant machinery and the like when the operators aren't slightly tipsy).
Albert, I think you probably did one of only two things you could have done in the circumstances by informing the foreman/boss.
You could possibly have told your friend to take a sickie, but by the sounds of it he put you in a very tight spot with little time to think of what would be the best course of action for everyone, I'm glad you didn't just ignore it as I can only imagine how much worse you'd feel if something did happen and anyone was hurt.
Not to mention I suspect your job might have been on the line if the boss knew that you were aware of the fact your friend had been drinking, and you didn't do anything about it.
No the cowardly nothing to do was sit smugly listen to some yop telling him had as few beers before work, then not, having the guts to call him on it right there, no he rather slid along to boss and asked for a few cookies and milk.
I would have serious doubts about his character, worse still he refers to this guy as a m8, I would have no issue with this guy had he done this right.
And if he worked for me this is what I would judge as the correct way in handling this
a) soon as he was told this he should have taken.his mat back home or dropped him off there saying do not come to work under the influence.
b) when arriving at work he should then have alerted either his boos or the HR of the situation
This guy may still have lost his job, thats not the OP fault, it never was the only thing the OP is guilty of is his handling of this.
Again if I was his boss his behavior /character in this would always be under question.
Again I will say he only put this on here for vindication of his acts he want to be perceived as the hero and not the snake!
Has the OP said what machinery is involved?
Also when the lad told you he had been drinking i'm sure you knew straight away what you would do and that would be to inform higher management.
So basically whilst he told you it wasnt during working hours so you could have just told him to do one and go home and call in sick but basically you said nothing and took him into work and stitched him up good and proper.
If he has been a good worker for a year and a half i presume this is the first time he has done this so why couldnt you of just told him to call in sick and not let it happen again?
You give him a lift to work so you must talk about life issues and such and you still do this to him, harsh...very harsh.
With friends like you who needs enemies.
as with a lot of people claiming to be good bosses and judging this situation, you fall right into the category of those that arn't.