Just found out today
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Behemoth said:
Wise, one thing I have learnt is to never play these mind games, hard to get games, etc avoid these types at all cost. Its a...well its been a learning experience for you I guess. I'd get a restraining order or tell the police in advance if you have this worry, this will be for security for you just incase she tries to make any allegations in the future, etc.
Dont be too scared though, get on with your life. This chick is lost, its clear she is one who doesnt know what she wants, desires attention and enjoys watching others in pain but moans when its her in pain. These type never learn, I can relate to how you feel but it stops at the point of physical knife threatning for me.
Hope it all works out.
I was asked a few days ago by a work colleague if there was any chance we'd get back together, the answer was something along the lines of it being a cold day in hell before that ever happens.
As I said I'm feeling a lot better about it now, she probably never will show up here or at work becuase she knows my family, and espcially my sister would give her some serious beeatings. And work would just call the police.
As I said I'm feeling a lot better about it now, she probably never will show up here or at work becuase she knows my family, and espcially my sister would give her some serious beeatings. And work would just call the police.
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Sounds like a complete nutter, i would stay well away from from her if i was you.
Behemoth said:
Fair play. To be honest I thought you might take offense
There's absolutely nothing wrong with not quite being over her, and I think you know this. Give it a little time. News about her has probably brought back echoes of what you felt for her. Even if she was a pscyho-cow-mutilator-from-hell, doesn't mean you didn't love her eh 
Women. Can't live with 'em. Can't Kill 'em.
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WantoN said:Did you even read the opening post
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Yes ?
WantoN said:Fair play. To be honest I thought you might take offense
Women. Can't live with 'em. Can't Kill 'em.
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Whats to get offended about when it's the truth ??
I know that at the end of the day if she does try to make contyact I know what to do. Which is not to losemy temper but to just ognore her, and if ned be use one of the options you guys mentioned. Well the legal and serious ones.
Behemoth said:Whats to get offended about when it's the truth ??
I know that at the end of the day if she does try to make contyact I know what to do. Which is not to losemy temper but to just ognore her, and if ned be use one of the options you guys mentioned. Well the legal and serious ones.
I won't presume to judge mate, I don't know the situation. But having know birds like this in the past, ignoring goes a long way. It's all about getting a reaction, as I'm sure you know all too well
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Behemoth said:
Not nice film and no doubt named for a good reason, adhire caution!
She sounds like she really loves you. You should reconsider and take her back - she NEEDS you. 
Seriously though, I went out with a psycho once, and she really very nearly ruined my life. She was expert at playing mind games, and did the old taking too many sleeping pills trick. In the end though, I made the decision to leave and that was that - severed all ties and never saw her again. Had the odd phone call now and then telling me she was having my child but that soon died away. Shame she was a psycho - she was good in the bedroom department.
As others have said - just keep away and ignore her and she will go away.
Seriously though, I went out with a psycho once, and she really very nearly ruined my life. She was expert at playing mind games, and did the old taking too many sleeping pills trick. In the end though, I made the decision to leave and that was that - severed all ties and never saw her again. Had the odd phone call now and then telling me she was having my child but that soon died away. Shame she was a psycho - she was good in the bedroom department.
As others have said - just keep away and ignore her and she will go away.