Karma

This sounds like an episode of My Name Is Earl. lol. Well you could be a witness then you could use it leverage to get what you want.
 
Kemik said:
Hi all,

While out with friends on Friday night I became aware that my ex girlfriend's ex boyfriend's ex (A) was going to beat up my ex (R) because of something that happened a while ago between the three of them.

I made the decision to go to inform R so that we wouldn't get hurt, even though she left me with huge rental bills and generally only wants to know me when she needs something. I don't like seeing people get beaten up. There's no point.

I found R, she didn't want anything to do with me and was busy grinding against some chav's crouch. She got beaten up. I saw it all happen and helped her to A&E while the guy she was grinding against decided to go home as he wasn't going to get laid.

I got her home safe and sound and stayed with her that night to make sure she was okay. Now she is begging me to be the main witness as she wants to press charges. I hate seeing anyone get beaten up but I can't help myself but think I shouldn't be a witness for her. She treated me like dirt and now that she needs my help she has realised that she shouldn't have. Karma is a bit of a ***** hey?

What do you guys reckon? Should I continue to be the nice guy and be her witness or should I tell her everything I saw and then stay out of it? I found out she cheated on me while we were together about an hour before she got beaten up but she has the attitude of "Sorry, but everything is about me. Look what happened to me!"

She has a swollen nose, bump on her head and above her eye, bruised and swollen jaw and bruised ribs.
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DO you not have a moral responsibility to attest to a crime that you witnessed.

Seems a pretty poor show to have the "revenge is sweet" attitude and frankly doesn't make you any better than the bully who beat up a girl in the first place.

Just remember that Karma works both ways....
 
I'd do it, but I wouldn't stop telling her how much of a whore/**** she is, and then I'd never help her again.

I think what I'm suggesting is for you to be her witness, and don't stop going on about how horrible she is, and then never help her/talk to her again.
 
The duty here is not to her, but to the state. It's the police, etc who will ask whether you will stand as a witness, and I'm not sure they'll be too sold on this sort of reason for not doing so.
 
You tried to warn her, she didn't listen, so why should you go running to help her now?
Wipe your hands and don't have get involved in anything to do with her anymore, because most likely the person/people behind the attack will come looking for you or something, its not worth it. Its her problem, not yours.
 
TheCenturion said:
But surely if he helps her, then he has leverage. Then again, from what she sounds like, she probably wouldn't even understand what leverage is.
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but once he's given his statement she doesn't need him so won't sit around to listen to the pathetic whining.

Unless he's going to whine about her in front of the police.
 
I wouldnt bother to be honest. If you have to give evidence in court then all of the stuff about your past with this girl will come into it and it will be a polava.

She sounds like a complete douch and most people like that never change until they eventually have to look at themselves all alone. Helping her to keep being a **** to people is not the morally right way to go.

I just cant see why you would bother with this girl. Some people start fights because they are ***** and others start fights because they wind someone else up too much.
 
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