lads - would you feel cheated on if your missus...

Its a Hen Night - its expected - its a rite of passage to marriage - a last fling.
My wifes hen night was 28 years ago and I'd be quite disappointed for her if nobody tried it on.
Meanwhile I was in the Queens Basford snogging all night.
At one point I was blindfolded in front of a gorgeous woman, she proceeded to snog me tongues & all and when they took the blindfold off I was snogging one of my workmates.
He wasn't a bad snogger actually.
 
Sort of reminds me of this email my girlfriend got sent awhile back:p

You got to love this guy. This is a true story about a recent wedding that took place at Clemson University. It was in the local newspaper and even Jay Leno mentioned it. It was a huge wedding with about 300 guests.

After the wedding, at the reception, the groom got up on stage with a microphone to talk to the crowd He said he wanted to thank everyone for coming, many from long distances, to support them at their wedding.

He especially wanted to thank the bride's and his family and to thank his new father-in-law for providing such a lavish reception. As a token of his deep appreciation he said he wanted to give everyone a special gift just from him. So taped to the bottom of everyone's chair, including the wedding party was an envelope. He said this was his gift to everyone, and asked them to open their envelope.

Inside each manila envelope was an 8x10 glossy of his bride having sex with the best man. The groom had gotten suspicious of them weeks earlier and had hired a private detective to tail them.

After just standing there, just watching the guests' reactions for a couple of minutes, he turned to the best man and said, "**** you!" Then he turned to his bride and said, "**** you!" Then he turned to the dumbfounded crowd and said, "I'm outta here."

He had the marriage annulled first thing in the morning. While most people would have canceled the wedding immediately after finding out about the affair, this guy goes through with the charade, as if nothing were wrong.

His revenge--making the bride's parents pay over $32,000 for a 300 guest wedding and reception, and best of all, trashing the bride's and best man's reputations in front of 300 friends and family members. This guy has balls the size of church bells.

Do you think we might get a MasterCard "priceless" commercial out of this?

Elegant wedding reception for 300 family members and friends: $32,000.

Wedding photographs commemorating the Occasion: $3,000

Deluxe two week honeymoon accommodations in Maui: $8,500

The look on everyone's face when they see the 8x10 glossy of the bride humping the best man: Priceless

There are some things money can't buy, for everything else there's MASTERCARD!
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No excuse, and what's to say it won't happen again? Tell your best friend, even if it's going to be the most difficult thing in the world.
 
wow cheers all for the replies, i forgot how quick this forum moves.

i figured it would be a 1/3 split - 1/3 livid, 1/3 indifferent, 1/3 its expected...

nice to see some of still have morals!
 
MossyUK said:
if your missus went on her hen night, and in a drunken state (but coherent) got off with another lad - kissing only, but was being felt up numerous times by numerous males (and not just her ass and boobies) but didnt go any further with that either (ie just a cheeky feel), would you consider that to be cheating?

Fortunately this isnt my missus (hence the jovial tone), but its my gf's best mate. Personally I consider this to be cheating but is it a disciplinary offence, or a Alan Sugar style firing?
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missus? married? getting off with other people? damaged goods return to store
 
well, getting off is too far really. nothing wrong with a bit of perhaps normally inappropriate flirting going on on your last night before marriage, but nope. sluuuuuuuuuut.
 
The getting too drunk and not being actually physically able to stop guys doing that sort of thing is excusable, I've had a girlfriend of mine have this happen to her before and she said she felt sick thinking about it and really regretted it.

The kissing thing though, seeing as it was a conscious choice - not excusable. I'd give her one more chance if it was an isolated case and I could realistically not see it happening again.

:edit: Ah, just re-read the original post. The fact that she wasn't totally out of it makes the getting felt up and not screaming rape/punching the guy in the face totally inexcusable.
 
Zefan said:
The getting too drunk and not being actually physically able to stop guys doing that sort of thing is excusable, I've had a girlfriend of mine have this happen to her before and she said she felt sick thinking about it and really regretted it.

The kissing thing though, seeing as it was a conscious choice - not excusable. I'd give her one more chance if it was an isolated case and I could realistically not see it happening again.
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But this is pretty much the night before the Wedding.

Its like getting pulled out of the way of a flying bullet at the last second.
 
I'm actually not reading posts properly today at all, totally missed that it was her hen night. Yep, I'd chuck her.
 
I'd be seriously annoyed. As said above being drunk and on a hen night is no excuse, look at it the other way round - if the guy did that I reckon the girl would have the right hump..

My missus is off on her sister's hen night in a few weeks but she's already expressed concern about how a bunch of women on a hen night will appear to the local gropers etc.

I'm the Best Man for the wedding and have to arrange the stag do, if we went out and got fruity with the local women our respective women would be seriously annoyed.. but we won't 'cause I don't think it's at all right and it's not an excuse to be unfaithful.
 
If you were about to get married then her kissing another bloke is not on at all.

As for her allowing blokes to touch her "(and not just her ass and boobies)" - she sounds like a complete ****.
 
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It's not good, and if she is doing that at this early stage, i wouldn't be very trusting of her. Best thing is not to let the bloke know.

If it was my mate, i would tell him though. Despite alcohol, everyone is responsible for their own actions. She needs to know this isn't right.

Personally, if i found out, i would tell her to **** off, and see how she reacted. She would owe him big time.
 
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