Last time you cried?

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Leaving my girlfriend behind when I departed to go to Afghanistan.
Last time before that was when I was 18 at uni, having a reasonably rough time of it and I got a phone call from my mum telling my my grandad had died. Not nice to be isolated away from your family when you get news like that!
 
Matt7613 said:
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I just broke down in this bar on Kingsway in front of her and all the businessmen. I didn't care at all, I didn't 'notice' anyone else, as it were. I think it's important to cry, sometimes you just can't help it.

The odd thing was that I had to go to a friend's birthday afterwards, meet loads of new people and pretend everything was great. I put on an act and carried it off fine.
 
Last time I cried for longer than 10 seconds was at my grandfather's funeral about 13 years ago.

Didn't stop crying for about 4 hrs. Trying to comfort my nan (I was 12) as she sat there broken was one of the hardest things I've had to do :(
 
I've been unhappy and really happy but never to the point of crying since i was in my teens i guess.
 
Last time was when my grandfather died. Because me and my mother had just returned from the funeral of my godmother who I was very close to, and then getting a phone-call that my grandfather had died was too much to bear. Without a word of a lie, me and my parents had just toasted to the good health of my grandparents mere moments before we got that call.

I held it in until I was alone though.

As for the future, I know I'm going to be inconsolable when my dog dies, no matter how much I try to prepare emotionally. Sometimes, just the thought that he's not going to be around forever depresses me for hours.
 
Though I am a woman I never used to cry much at all, my sister always thought I was a bit hard faced. Recent years have changed me though, I still don't cry that much as I prefer to keep it inside but now and again I just have to let it out for my own sanity.

Yesterday was the last time, life is not a good place at the moment. It's not been an easy year this year (work/health/relationships). I've often manged to keep myself going with little things to look forward to, but there isn't any of that at the moment. I just remind myself it's OK to let it all out somtimes, it's normal to feel depressed when life has taken a downward turn and time will improve things.
 
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About three hours ago when our health system failed on me in a time of need and refused to give me any strong painkillers despite being in agony.
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i was in hospital earlier this year with kidney pains and i was literally bawling my eyes out and all they would give me was paracetamol. if they worked, i wouldn't even be there in the first place. the ********. :mad:

edit: just remembered, i've cried since then too- watching the end of man on fire. yup, i'm a big girl's blouse. :D
 
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In the job centre 10 days ago, because they make you feel like ****

One man asked me to move because "he didnt have time to help me" :(

In other news, I was offered a job yesterday!!! :D
 
Lysander said:
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I just broke down in this bar on Kingsway in front of her and all the businessmen. I didn't care at all, I didn't 'notice' anyone else, as it were. I think it's important to cry, sometimes you just can't help it.

The odd thing was that I had to go to a friend's birthday afterwards, meet loads of new people and pretend everything was great. I put on an act and carried it off fine.
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When my gf of 2 years broke up with me, I kept strong for 1 week and then caved in and cried. I still cried months later. A year on, I'm still not over her and can't move on. She meant the world to me, even though her, her friends, and me knew she can be "difficult" and would struggle to commit and be happy. I wanted to be the one who could do that.

:( I want a good cry right now.
 
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