Long distance relationships...

It'd suck. My GF has gone home for Christmas, she's only been gone a few days and it already sucks.

Couldnt do it like that full time.
 
Have either of you got anything to lose if you go for it. If not, just go for it and see how it pans out. If either of you are having to sacrifice something/leaving someone, then I don't know.
 
Can't see it really working, all you will have is a pen pal who sends you naked pics, either that or something in the back of your mind when you do meet someone who could be more.

KaHn
 
KaHn said:
Can't see it really working, all you will have is a pen pal who sends you naked pics, either that or something in the back of your mind when you do meet someone who could be more.

KaHn
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You're assuming we haven't already met. I didn't specify.
 
CleanBlueSky, Is she a Chinese national? Sorry, I didn't read the thread, just your opening post.

I'm currently in China and coming over here to live and work is extremely easy. If that's an option for you. China is, by far, an amazing country with such an amazing and rich culture.

Chiense women are, indeed, very beautiful and extremely loyal and kind. For all the many horrible people I've met in England in my entire life, being here for just 4 months, I've met 5 times that amount of good, decent, friendly and hard-working people.

The point of all this is, if you want it to work, then don't rule out the possibility of coming to live in China and make it your home. It's a growing country with countless oppertunities to make a lot of money for foreigners, and it's just great.
 
cleanbluesky said:
You're assuming we haven't already met. I didn't specify.
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No I mean either way, if you decide to have a "proper" long distance relationship you will not have the same physical basis, for some this is "ok" but for me I just can get away with it.

KaHn
 
Zip said:
I have a long distance relationship and its the most loving most meaningful most open most understanding relationship ive ever had :)

If you both want it to work then it will work. The Time you do get to spend with each other will be treated extremely valuable and not a minute will be wasted.
They cant tell you "i think we should spend some time apart" either so you dont have that problem. You cant over crowed each other.
And like i said, when you see each other its great and the time is always spent doing something together :)
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This is all true;), but I've found that a long distance should only be a short thing, if you are both serious then you will get together "somewhere, Somewhen", eventualy.

As for me I'll be living the dream in Brasil soon, all because of a "girl" I met a long time ago ;)
 
Castor said:
It can work, my wife is from texas, we dated 'online' for 4 months before we met, now we have babies after lots of sex :D
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im in a semi-long distance (200 miles). see her once a week; shes from malaysia. But 3 weeks at xmas spending it together. We're at the lots of sex stage :) :D

imo though you have to consider the cultural background, beliefs and stuff in common of your OH - otherwise be prepared for a lot of arguments! GL
 
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