Lost For Words

Castiel · 14 Dec 2011 at 22:35

What can I say....

Only to give you and your family our hopes and best wishes.....

Dave85 · 14 Dec 2011 at 22:36

Thats such a terrible thing for anyone to go threw stay strong

cheets64 · 14 Dec 2011 at 22:39

Chin up, remember the good times, cancer is such an evil disease the way it takes away peoples independence and fight at the very end. Seen Grandparents, have cirrhosis of the liver,lung cancer , Brian tumour and gangrene, was POW and he body was ruined from the torture.

My dad had an heart attack on 18th Dec 2008, so Christmas since has always been a special time since then, manage to get him home on the 23rd, he was lucky thank god and had a stent put in but it hits you hard, one minute you have no worries in the world next minute you have a phone call and BAM you feel sick to the stomach, cant eat, horrible. Also all staff at NHS was bang on, did their job, amazing people in the NHS.

tbh I just want to go to sleep and never wake up when I get into my 70/80s

DB_SamX · 14 Dec 2011 at 22:47

Sorry to hear that; warmest wishes to you and your family SS.

Hyburnate · 14 Dec 2011 at 22:51

Been there done that. Keep strong for him and value every moment with him you can incase the worst happens.

pingwing · 14 Dec 2011 at 22:55

internet hugs there for you.

Lost a cousin to cancer many years ago and lost my dad a few years ago, just remember everyone will always do what they can to help in anyway you need and give you mum the biggest hugs

Hugs tend to help from my experence

Pate · 14 Dec 2011 at 22:57

He sounds a lucky man to have such support from you guys. He may be to much of a man to admit it, but you'll be making him happy and content.

Hyburnate · 14 Dec 2011 at 22:58

pingwing said:
Hugs tend to help from my experence

They do.

And again, thoughts are with your family.

Spanker · 14 Dec 2011 at 23:03

Thoughts are with you and the family.

cheets64 · 14 Dec 2011 at 23:06

btw secretspy is a female not that it matters but guys referring to her as mate and buddy, seems a bit weird.

Cosimo · 14 Dec 2011 at 23:08

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep strong.

Dr Delphi · 14 Dec 2011 at 23:09

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

secretspy · 14 Dec 2011 at 23:10

pingwing said:
internet hugs there for you.

Hugs tend to help from my experence

Thank you

I have just been wanting hugs all week. I tried to hug my mum earlier when she got upset but she wouldn't let me. Shes not generally the hugging kind. She's only allowed my brother to comfort her

cheets64 · 14 Dec 2011 at 23:19

secretspy said:
Thank you

I have just been wanting hugs all week. I tried to hug my mum earlier when she got upset but she wouldn't let me. Shes not generally the hugging kind. She's only allowed my brother to comfort her

Remember when my sister broke down when were just leaving the house for first visiting not what expecting to see and my mum was looking after my niece, I never cried once, wanted to be strong and didn't want to believe it. I am very emotional but just thought, this is not the how it ends!

secretspy · 15 Dec 2011 at 07:36

Going to the hospital this morning so will find out what decision has been made. Feeling rather scared

4T5 · 15 Dec 2011 at 07:36

Goiod Luck to you All.

Steedie · 15 Dec 2011 at 07:41

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, can't imagine what you're going through

Nitefly · 15 Dec 2011 at 07:50

Sorry to hear that, my thoughts go out to you.

Luke · 15 Dec 2011 at 08:03

Good luck today, and my thoughs are with you and your family.

Robbo · 15 Dec 2011 at 08:19

secretspy said:
Thank you

I have just been wanting hugs all week. I tried to hug my mum earlier when she got upset but she wouldn't let me. Shes not generally the hugging kind. She's only allowed my brother to comfort her

That sounds a bit strange. Do you not get on with her or something?

Anyway, sorry to hear about your dad. Not a great time for all this to transpire right before Christmas.

Though I suppose Christmas is pretty insignificant compared to what your family is going through.

Stay strong.