Love

Nix · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:44

spike66 said:
Thanks for that. he is right. it is our own perception of the "ONE" that will forge our future. For me, it is the love of my wife and children. I could not be without them . My wife is my soul mate, and as said befoe, my rock

Can she do the 'people's elbow'?

KnightStalker · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:45

Raymond Lin said:
Tell me where mine is and i'll give you all my posessions !

Thats something for you to find and you alone

i do realise it was a joke, but my statement stands true

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:46

Nix said:
I very much doubt that he doesn't wish for another person in his life.

But he/she is in control of their destiny. We cannot judge on anyone else's life. Can we say that our own is perfect, therefore we are experts and can judge on others. No we cannot. The thread was aimed at why we love our partners, not why they have not got the love of a partner

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:47

panthro said:
When I saw the title I thought it was a Megzy post.

A very refreshing OP compared to the usual rants.

Last gf I had, I wanted to love her, but just didnt. Had to end it. Single since Feb but enjoying my spare time and freedom.

You are not looking for a life partner, but you will find them when you least expect it

Nix · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:47

spike66 said:
But he/she is in control of their destiny. We cannot judge on anyone else's life. Can we say that our own is perfect, therefore we are experts and can judge on others. No we cannot. The thread was aimed at why we love our partners, not why they have not got the love of a partner

There is no such thing as destiny for crying out loud. What happens in our life is a direct or indirect result of the actions we take. You cannot stand by idley doing nothing as life passes you by!

KnightStalker · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:47

yer this thread has turned into somewhat a debate about love and "the one" and i dont think spike had the intention of this happening.

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:47

Raymond Lin said:
Tell me where mine is and i'll give you all my posessions !

You will never find them looking for them. You find them when you least expect it

AthlonTom · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:48

Is'nt the feeling "love" in fact just a chemical inbalance in your brain?

From some experiance with drugs I can reliably say that love is definately chemical, as certain drugs can throw you soo damn much, finding people to trigger it seems somewhat harder (though possibly cheaper in the short-term!).

Is they maybe why poeple can feel more "loved up" after sex? - chemical inbalance?

INFECTION · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:49

ok well av been having a lil argument with my gf about stuff and she tells me i am not allowed to buy a motorbike for reason IE she says there not safe but you should see the way she drives its like watching a rally. i told her i have wanted a bike since i was a youngster when i used to go out with my bro but she still has a go so i tell her to slow down because she is unsafe and i get a mouth full and told to keep out. but we still love each other but i dont know what to do.

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:50

Nix said:
There is no such thing as destiny for crying out loud. What happens in our life is a direct or indirect result of the actions we take. You cannot stand by idley doing nothing as life passes you by!

So if you go out, or even go to the shop and see someone you fancy, make a date, and end up in a relationship, it is not fate that sent you to the shop at that exact time?

Xinn · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:50

No it was just lux

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:50

KnightStalker said:
yer this thread has turned into somewhat a debate about love and "the one" and i dont think spike had the intention of this happening.

Thank god someone is sober than me.

KnightStalker · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:50

Nix said:
There is no such thing as destiny for crying out loud. What happens in our life is a direct or indirect result of the actions we take. You cannot stand by idley doing nothing as life passes you by!

what i dont understand is, why you still posting in the thread if you disagree with what WE feel and how we see OUR life and the way OUR life has worked out, and that we are trying to pass on friendly advice to people.

spike66 said:
Thank god someone is sober than me.

im with you on this subject 100%, so im glad im more sober too.

Nix · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:50

spike66 said:
So if you go out, or even go to the shop and see someone you fancy, make a date, and end up in a relationship, it is not fate that sent you to the shop at that exact time?

No, it's not fate. It will be the result of a direct action I took.

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:52

AthlonTom said:
Is'nt the feeling "love" in fact just a chemical inbalance in your brain?

From some experiance with drugs I can reliably say that love is definately chemical, as certain drugs can throw you soo damn much, finding people to trigger it seems somewhat harder (though possibly cheaper in the short-term!).

Is they maybe why poeple can feel more "loved up" after sex? - chemical inbalance?

Don't do drugs, so cannot say. i know that my wife is a drug that I like a lot. The kids are too come to mention it

Nix · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:53

spike66 said:
Don't do drugs, so cannot say. i know that my wife is a drug that I like a lot. The kids are too come to mention it

Please tell me you don't snort or smoke your kids :confused:

Johnny Girth · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:53

No, it's not fate. It will be the result of a direct action I took

Ah, but you had no choice but to take that action as you had already made up your mind to do it. Rewind that scene a billion times and you'd go to the shop again, every time. Hence it's fate!

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:53

INFECTION said:
ok well av been having a lil argument with my gf about stuff and she tells me i am not allowed to buy a motorbike for reason IE she says there not safe but you should see the way she drives its like watching a rally. i told her i have wanted a bike since i was a youngster when i used to go out with my bro but she still has a go so i tell her to slow down because she is unsafe and i get a mouth full and told to keep out. but we still love each other but i dont know what to do.

tell her to e-mail me and i will give her the reasons a bike is safe. I ride a CBR600F and have for 2 years or so. I ride it better than my BWM (that gets hammered on every outing)

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:55

KnightStalker said:
what i dont understand is, why you still posting in the thread if you disagree with what WE feel and how we see OUR life and the way OUR life has worked out, and that we are trying to pass on friendly advice to people.

im with you on this subject 100%, so im glad im more sober too.

I am not sober, but, yes, come let us all say how we feel about our partners. We do not know each other, only through the forums, so come on, be honest

Nix · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:55

Johnny Girth said:
Ah, but you had no choice but to take that action as you had already made up your mind to do it. Rewind that scene a billion times and you'd go to the shop again, every time. Hence it's fate!

No, because I could've so easily have decided to not do anything. Fate would be someone accidentially dialling your phone number, 1000 miles away, instead of someone elses after years of not knowing them and then you both becoming partners.