Do you wear the trousers or not? Get a grip!!!
From the outside, it seems mad that your wife won't consider moving to Leeds but is happy to move to Canada.
In priorities, family, yourself and your work life balance come way above loyalty to any company.
What is the deal with your shares? I owned shares in my previous company and as per T&C's I had to sell them when I left employment (in effect shares treated as 'forced sale' so offer rate was terrible).
When they mention out sourcing to me that usually means they want cheap labour and will probably end up going to India or China for development work. With this in mind don't forget about the 10% stake you have in software shares as the value could plummet.
That's what I've just learned.
During the year where we built most of our software, I was working 16-18 hours a day, 6 days a week, which I will never get back. Oh naive stupidity.
It's just a job, why would he want to live away for half of the week!
That's what I've just learned.
During the year where we built most of our software, I was working 16-18 hours a day, 6 days a week, which I will never get back. Oh naive stupidity.
They're not outsourcing anything. In fact, every facet of the business is done in-house. If I don't move up there, they're going to replace me with someone local.
Can they though?
Are they likely to find someone local with your skillsets, considering what you've done for the company these past 6 years?
You've said your wife won't move, but if she did, it would be a small test to see if she could handle being away from her family. If she couldn't then Canada would be a flop for sure, albeit Canada > Leeds on just about every level i would imagine.
Hold out for redundancy, would be my opinion, and sell the shares if they're worth more than peanuts.
I'm sure you get find employment again pretty quickly with your CV.
What's your timescales for your move to Canada?
Could consultancy/freelance work be an option in the meantime?