i used to play ffxi and loved the force grouping back then, plus the storylines, cutscenes and unlocking everything on 1 character, also i loved camping the infamous named mobs and beating the real money traders! i found wow boring because i didnt like playing on my own, the boring quests felt like more of a grind than the 6 man grind groups from old skool ffxi because at least you were with people, and the missions like chains of promathia were really challenging and fun! i eventually quit when they raised the lvl cap and changed everything! but was playing less anyway because i eventually did get a bit bored and was rather time consuming. other mmos i have played havent lasted long because they all followed the same boring quest routes and no real cut scenes or story, that is until i found the secret world
so secret world - great game - more fun than a lot of single player rpgs but an mmo! lots of cutscenes, a storyline, good character progression with no classes and lots of abilities to unlock, use 2 weapons and an auxilery weapon at the same time, eventually you can unlock and use everything with 1 character (but not at the same time) so a lot like ffxi in that regard, plus its challenging enough that you really need to look at your abilities and gear to survive at times or *shock horror* actually group up outside a dungeon. Not that many dungeons and end game atm, but the dungeons that are there, are very fun and keep even dps on there toes. Also makes a change from the fantasy theme.
so safe to say im not a fan of the traditional mmo, i may give ffxiv a shot if the secret world gets boring