Moving in with someone.

BoomAM · 20 Mar 2011 at 14:57

Hi,
I was having a discussion with mates on when was considered too soon to ask a significant other to move in with you, needless to say, varied opinions.
I'm curious as to what the good forumites of the OCUK forum think.

Opinions?

Thanks.

Lysander · 20 Mar 2011 at 14:58

Whenever it feels right for both of you.

G|mp · 20 Mar 2011 at 14:58

When it feels right.

Castiel · 20 Mar 2011 at 14:59

When you can't afford the rent.

pingwing · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:01

When she's pregnant

BoomAM · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:04

Well it only took three posts till the silly answers came...

4T5 · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:04

When she tells you she has won the lottery jackpot & at No other time.

Jambo · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:05

BoomAM said:
Well it only took three posts till the silly answers came...

Disappointing. It's usually the first reply.

Dunks · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:05

It's not a matter of time, it's when it makes sense and is right for both of you.

loltim · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:06

BoomAM said:
Well it only took three posts till the silly answers came...

well, "when it feels right" is the only real answer, isn't it?

This is GD afterall

Cosimo · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:07

When she feels you're right for it.

^TANK^ · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:09

Just thought I would make everyone lol at me, myself and the girlfriend of nine years moved in together within the week

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Morba · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:11

Good work! Me and the wife have been together for 10 years, we were engaged within 6 weeks and living together from about 8 months

Dunks · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:18

Morba said:
Good work! Me and the wife have been together for 10 years, we were engaged within 6 weeks and living together from about 8 months

6 weeks

Skillmister · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:20

The day you meet. Might aswell get it over with because the answer isnt going to change

Morba · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:26

Dunks said:
6 weeks

What's wrong?

Dunks · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:31

Morba said:
What's wrong?

Nothing?

I just can't imagine being engaged to someone after being together/seeing each other after 6 weeks, that's what, 5-6 dates at a push?

But it's obviously worked out with you guys, so why not

4T5 · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:31

^TANK^ said:
Just thought I would make everyone lol at me, myself and the girlfriend of nine years moved in together within the week .

Isn't that called kidnapping ?

vicisthebest · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:34

Me and my boyfriend moved in together after 10 months but decided to do it after 7 (just took us a little while to get some rental money together and find a house).

Tbh, I'm so sure that he's the guy for me that he could've proposed after the 7 months and I would've said yes. Still waiting though after 2.5 years!

998cc · 20 Mar 2011 at 15:38

Dunks said:
Nothing?

I just can't imagine being engaged to someone after being together/seeing each other after 6 weeks, that's what, 5-6 dates at a push?

But it's obviously worked out with you guys, so why not

I think he badly phrased it.... 6 weeks after they moved in with each other which was 8 months into the relationship??

Moving in with someone.

Capodecina