Moving in with someone.

[FnG]magnolia;18712376 said:
When you realise that the drab, hollow existence which passes for your life is the best that you're realistically going to get until you die - this, this right here is when you accept that moving in with her can't make your joke of a life any worse.
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Oh dear. Your post makes me sad :(
 
[FnG]magnolia;18712376 said:
When you realise that the drab, hollow existence which passes for your life is the best that you're realistically going to get until you die - this, this right here is when you accept that moving in with her can't make your joke of a life any worse.
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+1
 
[FnG]magnolia;18712376 said:
When you realise that the drab, hollow existence which passes for your life is the best that you're realistically going to get until you die - this, this right here is when you accept that moving in with her can't make your joke of a life any worse.
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lol this is good, and strangely true.
 
I moved halfway across the country to move in with my fiance after about 4 months of knowing each other.
Long distance was getting too expensive to see each other regularly so it worked out better just to get our own place, been togather 4 years now :)
 
I'm planning on moving in with my girlfriend this summer.
We've known each other for years, but been together for ~14 months.

I would say it's best to move out when both of you are ready.
 
I probably saw my girlfriend about 5/6 times, and the following time, we were living together for 3 months, and every time ive seen her since then we have lived together. :p

My situation is slightly different in that she lives in another country. Only thing I can really say is that I love the fact we kind of moved in straight away...(as thats the only way we can be together). :)
 
Surely you wait to the point where she is already spending more time at your place than at hers, and then suggest she moves in?
 
When you're ready to get married, because that's essentially what you're doing. If you're co-paying for the house, it's more of a commitment than marriage is.
 
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This. All woman are mental.
 
Whatever you think, sex WILL go down hill in both frequency and variety. She will expect more hugs and cuddles, more time infront of YOUR tv with YOUR remote in her hand, you to cook, washup, clean and be her little lapdog.

Go for it, it will be amazing. Congrats!

Shadows1990 said:
I'm planning on moving in with my girlfriend this summer.
We've known each other for years, but been together for ~14 months.

I would say it's best to move out when both of you are ready.
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She has brainwashed you, I'm sorry to have lost another fine man soldier to the woman she banshee :(:(
 
When I asked my current partner to move in with me I had split up with my ex (of 5 years) and had a (then) 3 year old son. We had been seeing each other on and off for a couple of months my son loved her and it quickly dawned on me that she was better at cleaning/washing up than me, so had to move in immediately. 8 years, 3 kids later - were still together trudging happily through the quagmire of filth that is life.
 
publicwhobreach said:
Me and Dan pretty much have always lived together but not technically as we have just moved between parental houses.
As i say though that took effect as of week one.
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No, there's a massive difference between spending a lot of time at each others' places and permanently living together. The two are incomparable.
 
DONT DO IT!
Seriously, living with women is hell
Lysander is right, staying round each others house often is absolutly not the same as living together!

As soon as you live together you see them every morning, evey evening, you have to share house work, cooking, all sorts, opens up soooo many avenues for argument!
 
Varies from person to person and relationship to relationship.

1st long-term gf: Moved in together after 5 months, split up 10 months later.

2nd one never moved in, ended after 1 year 9 months.

3rd moved in after 2 months, split 4 months later.

Current, moved in together after 9 months, bought place together 4 months after that, and have been living there for the past 11 months, and still incredibly happy together.
 
Davepen said:
DONT DO IT!
Seriously, living with women is hell
Lysander is right, staying round each others house often is absolutly not the same as living together!

As soon as you live together you see them every morning, evey evening, you have to share house work, cooking, all sorts, opens up soooo many avenues for argument!
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+1

On a lighter note, I just started seeing a chick a few weeks ago who doesn't want to move in at any stage in the foreseeable future due to a bad relationship previously or something. So good result for me!
 
FNGsam said:
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On a lighter note, I just started seeing a chick a few weeks ago who doesn't want to move in at any stage in the foreseeable future due to a bad relationship previously or something. So good result for me!
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Score! @:D
I quite liked living with my ex, but it just grates after a while! We moved in together after about 3-4months, was far too soon!
 
When I was with my ex a few years ago we were going great, then I remember we took a week off and decided to go and stay for a week in a self catering as a get away....

It was herrendous, we must have argued all week :( No matter what we did, we ended up argueing about something and ruined the whole holiday, she ended up going to bed early the rest of the week etc...needless to say we ended it :p

Funny thing is, when we spent time together normally it was totally different and relaxed, laughing here and there etc, yet when we were permanently together there was so much tension and friction.......
 
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