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Good luck dude!
After a a couple of weeks and back and forth I've decided to go home; been here just shy of two months now but not enjoying it any where near as much as I had hoped; I think the 3months I spent travelling didn't help in the respect I've felt so unsettled for such a long time - been out of work now since December 28th and miss the routine.
I'm sorry to hear things haven't worked out as planned, but still, it sounds like you've had an amazing adventure, and I imagine you've got a new found fondness of home, which I'm sure will be great when you're back.
My girlfriend and I are in a situation where we love the city we're in, but we miss people back home, and I think what is making it worse is that neither of us are particularly happy with our jobs at the moment. Because of that, we're pretty certain we'll want to go home after a year. Which means that we can't really feel settled any more, because we might be going back sooner than we thought it makes everything feel temporary. Suddenly buying something nice for the flat becomes "Is it worth it if we're going home?", which might sound small, but it's not a great way to live. We're 28 and 29 and we're realising that we're probably ready to settle, but not here, back home in the UK.
It's making it very hard to call this place home. We're definitely homesick though, it's funny, it's very hard to explain it, it's just a general feeling of not feeling right, despite so many good things going on in life right now (with work being the exception).
Who knows what the future holds. We have family visiting in a few weeks, then we have friends out, which will be amazing, but also very sad when everyone has gone home and the winter rain sets in. Although that does mean snowboarding and skiing starts

It sounds like I'm just moaning, this really has been, and will continue to be an amazing and very important experience for us. I love city life, particularly here.
[TW]Fox;24650394 said:Just absolutely amazing.
I have flights to Vancouver booked for a few months time and I can't wait![]()
Awesome! What brings you out this way? Are you doing another road trip?
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