That was a nice touch haha, but for OP um, I couldnt say, I've never talked to anybody in a Gym (I always go in a group with my gf) and I met my gf in Uni Registration queue. Her friend asked "where did you get this form?" and I started talking, then later I got her email address.
Need some advice please :)
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That was a nice touch haha, but for OP um, I couldnt say, I've never talked to anybody in a Gym (I always go in a group with my gf) and I met my gf in Uni Registration queue. Her friend asked "where did you get this form?" and I started talking, then later I got her email address.
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She started the staring firstwhen ever i turn around to check her out,shes already starin at me
Not to make you paranoid but maybe she's disturbed by your shocking technique and she doesn't have the confidence to tell you? Maybe you've got a label sticking out your top? Maybe you're just a bit of eye-candy for while she is working out?
I wouldn't try to pick anyone up in a gym generally as I barely pay attention to anyone in there (if you've got time to look around and gaze longingly into each others eyes then neither of you is working hard enough) but since you think there may be some spark of attraction then why not simply try saying hi. What's the worst that can happen? Shameful humiliating rejection and having to change gyms due to the stigma?
Not to make you paranoid but maybe she's disturbed by your shocking technique and she doesn't have the confidence to tell you? Maybe you've got a label sticking out your top? Maybe you're just a bit of eye-candy for while she is working out?
I wouldn't try to pick anyone up in a gym generally as I barely pay attention to anyone in there (if you've got time to look around and gaze longingly into each others eyes then neither of you is working hard enough) but since you think there may be some spark of attraction then why not simply try saying hi. What's the worst that can happen? Shameful humiliating rejection and having to change gyms due to the stigma?
Lol.you got it right about the rejection part
i dont get paranoid 
She has a friend aswell who is a bit easy,shall i start the conversation away from her ?
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I'm not sure I follow here. You think her friend is a bit easy and if you strike up a conversation with starey girl (I don't know her name but I've got to call her something) then easy girl might find you irresistably attractive and ruin your chances?
Joking aside I hope it goes well for you, my only real advice would be to try and keep it light and pleasant at first, that should minimise any uncomfortableness if the situation has been misread.
lol@this, after working out a while, go to buy a drink from the vending machine, on your way, ask her if she wants anything.
its a start.
if she says yes, buy her w.e it is she asks for and let the convo roll on "so how long u been coming here?"
if it all somehow goes bad, do as above and change gym xD
its a start.
if she says yes, buy her w.e it is she asks for and let the convo roll on "so how long u been coming here?"
if it all somehow goes bad, do as above and change gym xD
lmao
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I've lost count of the number of times a guy has been looking at me in the gym but done nothing about it, trust me, even if she has a boyfriend she'll love the fact you're looking, so for heavens sake....
Go say hi!!
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