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[DW]Muffin;10558459 said:
So not telling her that shes ruining her life and her babys is better then upsetting her?

Get with it.

And telling her that she's ruining her life and her baby's, is going to achieve what? She's already pregnant, seems to be trying to settle down, so why not just wish her all the best instead of publicly condemning her unborn child to a 'crap life'.
 
[DW]Muffin;10558384 said:
Neither do I know you or care about you, care about the innocent child thats going to have a crap life :/

I'm really sorry but I don't understand how I'm immature when comments like these are being posted. How do any of you know it will have a crap life? How do you people know I won't be a good parent? What does age matter anyway? Some people make out they are so high and mighty on here but do you know what? You are the same as everyone else and no the sun doesn't shine out your ass.

All I've done is share news, good news, and I get all this **** about its going to have a crap life. Thanks.
 
How do any of you know it will have a crap life? How do you people know I won't be a good parent?

Because in the real world its happened 10000^a lot times over with the same results.. its just naive.. you're too young for the emotiona, physical and mental side effects. No matter what you think now.. youll regret it..

if its a real post ofc
 
How do any of you know it will have a crap life? How do you people know I won't be a good parent?

Are you, and/or your partner, educated well enough to make it on their own, with decent enough pay to be able to provide for the child and their other half? Do you, and/or your partner, have the life skills developed to bring a child up, to raise it properly with a decent foundation to modern life? Do you, and/or your partner have the dedication to not end up reliant on "the system", claiming money that isn't yours, to ensure your child grows up with morals, and the self sense to see that teenage pregnancy is not a good idea?

Pretty hard to teach your own child to not be yourself?
 
And telling her that she's ruining her life and her baby's, is going to achieve what? She's already pregnant, seems to be trying to settle down, so why not just wish her all the best instead of publicly condemning her unborn child to a 'crap life'.

She obviously is completely oblivious to what her life shall entail, she doesn’t still have to keep the baby, and before people start, I believe in that the child should having a good home to live in, then being stuck in a damp council flat.


I'm really sorry but I don't understand how I'm immature when comments like these are being posted. How do any of you know it will have a crap life? How do you people know I won't be a good parent? What does age matter anyway? Some people make out they are so high and mighty on here but do you know what? You are the same as everyone else and no the sun doesn't shine out your ass.

All I've done is share news, good news, and I get all this **** about its going to have a crap life. Thanks.

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http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=17628315


You strike me as person who has trouble running her life, you should or could wait till your older, got a proper job, got your own home, experiences life more, go on holiday. All these things now will be completely different, you are going to wish your going out on new year’s eve when your 21 and not sat at home with Bobby-Jo.
 
sorry, but it does sound like you've had a hard/unstable life and your having a kid to try an prove something to yourself. Rather than sorting your issues out.

but the deed is done. So good luck.

Work hard at it and get your bloke out working and if needed studying at night so he can get a good job and look after the pair of you.
 
Are you, and/or your partner, educated well enough to make it on their own, with decent enough pay to be able to provide for the child and their other half? Do you, and/or your partner, have the life skills developed to bring a child up, to raise it properly with a decent foundation to modern life? Do you, and/or your partner have the dedication to not end up reliant on "the system", claiming money that isn't yours, to ensure your child grows up with morals, and the self sense to see that teenage pregnancy is not a good idea?

Pretty hard to teach your own child to not be yourself?

Yes to all of that actually, both my boyfriend and me have jobs. Yes I may be only 17 but I'm more grown up than a lot of people here who are sitting behing a computer screen because they have nothing better to do with thier sorry little lives. Yes both of us have the dedication, um whats so wrong when both parents are together in a stable relationship and getting married next year?
 
I know so many people who, since leaving school, have got bored of trying to hold a job down or go to college so have taken "the next step" in life and got engaged + pregnant, usually around the same time.

Good luck with it, but it's going to be bloody hard work for you make no mistake.

both parents are together in a stable relationship and getting married next year?

How long have you been with him?
 
Yes to all of that actually, both my boyfriend and me have jobs. Yes I may be only 17 but I'm more grown up than a lot of people here who are sitting behing a computer screen because they have nothing better to do with thier sorry little lives. Yes both of us have the dedication, um whats so wrong when both parents are together in a stable relationship and getting married next year?

Brilliant :)

I never get the sitting behind a computer screen because they have nothing better to do with their lives comment. People who say it on an online forum are themselves sitting behind a computer screen at that moment???
 
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