There is the problem with selective education! So glad we have none of that 11+ nonsense where I live so it is one less stress in the admissions system!I can relate to this our eldest missed out on her 11+ by 3 points and due to being oversubscribed she lost the appeal too. Ironically her sats were far better than most of her friends who passed. In our area the gulf between the grammar/high schools and normal schools is massive. Luckily I have just been promoted and looking to relocate near to Lincoln where the schools in general are far far better.