If you want minimum FPS over 100 I would say you are probably the posterboy for Intel (this isn't a jibe, I probably fall into the same category as I'm extremely sensitive to framerates), you are exactly the sort of case where SB will shine because minimum FPS will often be dictated by the slowest thread maxing out the single core that is processing it, and that threshold will get hit much sooner on AMD. As a hardcore competitive gamer you will likely be running with relatively low graphics settings which again increases the cpu limitation and makes BD look weak.
When it comes to real world value I guess it comes down to cost; Intel may not be massively faster, but it isn't massively more expensive either. Personally I'd choose a 2500K over 8120 given the choice.