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I've never understood the logic of taking anger out on the guy who in all likelihood is none the wiser to the situation.

It depends, if the guy comes up to the girl even thou he sees you with her then it's clearly his fault, if in HNRs case, the girl is the one that provokes him or tricks him into thinking she's interested then the woman is the one who's at fault.

I go out like 5 days a week and I see many of these girls, they stand there with their boyfriend and then start chatting with other guys... the last one I saw did it with 2 guys in like 10 minutes... even thou her boyfriend was going to fight the first one before the bouncer came, then she started touching this guys head in a affectionate way while her boyfriend was behind her... I honestly don't know how these guys can stand women like this, I would have grabbed a drink from the counter and beaten her over the head.
 
franco_22

oh yeah its never the guys fault, he is my husband in name only, i can do what i like. I am totally free to do as i please.

I don't go round posting pictures all the time, last time i posted pictures was 2001,(and where i posted them originally i gave them a new set this year because they were still posting the old ones) he asked me not to then and i obeyed, in fact i ended up not talking and being social with anyone not even on a forum, because women shouldn't talk to men apparently, when this guy is angry he rips doors off hinges and can be violent around me, or put me in a dangerous situation to punish me. Have you ever been locked in? From what i can and can't wear to who i talk to. So he has some serious issues. But its your opinion that i cause this behavior in him, so justifies his behavior, so if he killed me i deserved it didn't i. nice guy i'm sure your wife appreciates you.

He is doing a lot better as he has been under a counselor for the past 8 months and i have seen some changes in his behavior.

Knows there is no way of defending oneself on the interweb or their actions, but it is been a long time since i've felt free enough to do as i please.

As for middle age virgins on forums i'm sure they seen plenty of porn, just move on.

oh by the way you are the first to now make my ignore list.
 
Your posts make no sense.

You haven't recently posted pictures, yet you posted ass shots in sports arena a few weeks ago?
You take it to the extreme of not talking to anyone for no apparent reason maybe to make him feel guilty, i dunno.
You stick around with a guy who supposedly treats you like **** and dont shut up about him?
You act like you can do what you want behind your 'husbands' back but dont understand why he gets angry?

lolHNR1
 
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franco_22

oh yeah its never the guys fault, he is my husband in name only, i can do what i like. I am totally free to do as i please.

Kinda lol'd at this statement, "he is my husband in name only", lol, what the heck does that mean? Okay, my girlfriend is my girlfriend in name only, let me go and sleep with as many women as I like. No, if you not happy then divorce/leave the relationship, don't go around flirting with other men while you're still married, that's just wrong, period.


I don't go round posting pictures all the time, last time i posted pictures was 2001,(and where i posted them originally i gave them a new set this year because they were still posting the old ones) he asked me not to then and i obeyed, in fact i ended up not talking and being social with anyone not even on a forum, because women shouldn't talk to men apparently,

Somehow I find it hard to believe, oh and talking does not mean flirting, posting pictures of you in underwear = SERIOUS FLIRTING, just so you know. Given your record and what you do, I don't see how you can expect this guy to trust you. I don't have a problem if my girlfriend talks to other men,as long as I don't see her flirt with them, then yes, I will rip doors off hinges as well.


when this guy is angry he rips doors off hinges and can be violent around me, or put me in a dangerous situation to punish me. Have you ever been locked in? From what i can and can't wear to who i talk to. So he has some serious issues. But its your opinion that i cause this behavior in him, so justifies his behavior, so if he killed me i deserved it didn't i. nice guy i'm sure your wife appreciates you.

If he doesn't want you to go out looking like a **** I don't see where the problem is ? Maybe he just wants you to respect yourself. My girlfriend can wear whatever she wants but if I think a dress is too short or if she's wearing some see through shirt where I can clearly see her bra/body then yes I will tell her to get changed, what's wrong with that? Would you like me to go around flaunting my goods at every woman who wants to see?



oh by the way you are the first to now make my ignore list.

This just tells me, "you really hit a nerve" which if I was a troll (:rolleyes:) would only make me smile.

Oh and you really do need to respect yourself more, you obviously must have some deep low self-esteem issues, I understand because when I was a teenager I liked to post pictures of me as well, always looking for reassurance, now I don't, I haven't posted a picture of me in years, I don't even use Facebook, I don't have to because I'm confident with the way I look. You're right in one thing, if your husband can't make you feel good about your appearance then he is useless and you should find a new one.
 
Kinda lol'd at this statement, "he is my husband in name only", lol, what the heck does that mean? Okay, my girlfriend is my girlfriend in name only, let me go and sleep with as many women as I like. No, if you not happy then divorce/leave the relationship, don't go around flirting with other men while you're still married, that's just wrong, period.

Holy ****, I've been seeing a married woman 14 years older then me for the last 7 months and it's exactly as you described. Totally worth it thou.

Does not compute?:confused:
 
Does not compute?:confused:

I never said what I do is right? Besides, I'm not the one who's married, when someone is so unhappy in a relationship that they resort to cheating then they should leave that relationship or if they are happy with what they are doing then they are bad people in general but I'm not going to pass up the chance to sleep with a hot experienced woman in her thirties because even if I don't do it, some other chap will.
 
Does not compute?:confused:

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so when you refer to her as your girlfriend and how you disagree with her flirting with other men and would rip doors of hinges if she did it where you could see you're fine with her being ploughed by another man when she goes home?
 
It's admirable and I think we all do. However, iirc you're still quite young. You'll discover that your morals can stretch sometimes when you age a little :)

Cheating, naturally, is a no no. Older birds are awesome. I'm 26 and have no problem chatting up a 32-38 year old, any day of the week.

26 is defined as older? You're practically still a boy.

Now the morals thing some ppl may be married but estranged, i am from my husband by 7000 miles till he can sort his egotistical possessive nature out, he is working on the anger management, as he said if any man comes near me he'll rip both their heads off, but as far as i'm concerned i'm single.

Ah estranged, the word some use to make excuses about their failed relationship or for those who haven't done the right thing and file for divorce.

Every time you post i lose more faith in humanity

She does have a unique way of getting her point across.
 
so when you refer to her as your girlfriend and how you disagree with her flirting with other men and would rip doors of hinges if she did it where you could see you're fine with her being ploughed by another man when she goes home?

She's not the girlfriend I'm referring to ;)
 
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