no, its bull, complete bull.
These theories of blaming the cheater are all basing it on being the cheaters faultthis is not always, and not even that often the case.
Yes its their fault to actually go out and do it, but say someones married for 10 years and the wife(or husband) turns into a total ass for whatever reason, years of misery completely the other persons fault, then the other one finds some happyness with someone else. That way around the "non" cheater has to change, if they do it can be back and completely happy and fine.
THe thing here though is in general, if someone cheated, probably BOTH people in the relationship have to change something to be happy again.
Its actually fairly rare for someone to find a person they really like, be happy and go and cheat while they are really happy. People cheat when something in the relationship sucks but attachment and lack of wanting change make them stay but cheat.
The person you describe in your post should have just dumped said partner instead of holding onto them whilst moving onto someone else. Just have the balls to move on and then find someone else if your not happy. Cheating is a result of someones insecurity and fear of being alone in my experience.
If you're not happy with your partner just leave! Dont bother dragging it out until you just find someone new. Thats what I do anyway.
True, unless you handcuff them to a radiator in a cellar for the rest of the relationship![]()
How can you possibly know that?
False. People who have cheated I'd guess are more likely to cheat again, but to presume that every single person on the planet who has cheated is unable to become faithful is absurd.
The person you describe in your post should have just dumped said partner instead of holding onto them whilst moving onto someone else. Just have the balls to move on and then find someone else if your not happy. Cheating is a result of someones insecurity and fear of being alone in my experience.
If you're not happy with your partner just leave! Dont bother dragging it out until you just find someone new. Thats what I do anyway.
False. Nothing is ever that clear cut and easy.
True, unless their entire mindset and outlook changes.
It hurts but I think you did the right thing dudei just split with mine over this after living with her for the past year, she cheated for the second time after promising me the earth she wouldnt. I love her more than the air that i breath, and the sad part is i know she loves me too but i cant stay with some one who wont be helped nor help themselves, i just ran out of evergy. But i still have faith in her, I still have faith she can sort her life and head out, work hard, meet someone good, and hopefully one day when she has done that, that she will realise what she has near her in the present is more important than what she could have in the future.![]()
True, unless their entire mindset and outlook changes.
True. Speaking from experience.
True or false?
It hurts but I think you did the right thing dude
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I only did it because I got annoyed with the other hackers so decided to join in![]()
I've been there and got the tshirt. I know how you feel though and as much as I hated hearing these words its so true "time will heal". I mean all you want is for it the pain to go away but it wont for a while. It seems when you face up to the fact its over and realise that its over and your better off you feel much better. You gave her a second chance thats it now she didnt learn the first time so I dont think she is going to change.I hope so, the last 3 weeks have been the worst in my life. I only hope i never go through it again but to be honest, i don't have much faith in people anymore.