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Raikiri said:
Especially that one.
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Especially that one.
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Meths said:I know a guy who has sex with random chicks through online dating. Both parties consenting of course.
never tried it myself though as the wife wouldn't be too chuffed.
and what websites would he use to find said lovely ladies ?
never been one for clubbing, im waaay too young for pretty much every female at my work (am an admin and the average age must be at least 20 years older than me)
which doesn't leave many places to find new people
i see lots of websites that you have to pay subscriptions for, but i have yet to find one that looks professional enough that i would ever consider spending my hard earned cash on.
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Just remember to ABORT if she signs any text 'Bruce'Mattius said:
XuQa (kinda like FaceParty but just for Universities) was pretty good for pulling (been blocked on my Uni campus network now). I talked to a girl on there for about a month, went over to her halls for "chat" at about 1am one Saturday night and an hour later we were doing the no pants dance. True story.
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Mattius said:
Go on lad !! good luck dude, ull b fine
Well im impressed. I have to say i've never been one for sitting in a pub on my own. and the cruel wait for her to come was a nerve racked nightmare.
she didn't look too much like her pictures, but i'd say she was actually nicer.
she was an uber interesting girl and we chatted away for hours until the pub shut, then walked her home. but no action guys. friendly kisses that was it.
i have to say i really like her and the whole online dating thing was great conversation and so funny listening to her view of it.
don't think anything is gonna happen though, she had such an interesting life and mine sounds so so boring in comparison. which is a shame cause she is uber nice and i would love to see her again.
she didn't look too much like her pictures, but i'd say she was actually nicer.
she was an uber interesting girl and we chatted away for hours until the pub shut, then walked her home. but no action guys. friendly kisses that was it.
i have to say i really like her and the whole online dating thing was great conversation and so funny listening to her view of it.
don't think anything is gonna happen though, she had such an interesting life and mine sounds so so boring in comparison. which is a shame cause she is uber nice and i would love to see her again.
I met my wife on one of the free dating services (was drunk at the time and promptly forgot about it! 
). A month or so later, I got an email from this lady on a Friday, we emailed each other over the weekend and decided to meet up on the Monday.
This was May 2001. I proposed in August 2001, moved in with her in October 2001, we were married Easter 2002. We had a daughter July 2004!
So I can recommend online dating for this reason.
However: Previous to this, I met a few women from chat rooms etc and all turned out to have baggage and one of them turned into abit of a psycho host beast and well, i won't go into it here!!
Go into these dates with open eyes and take it slow!
Good luck
AB
). A month or so later, I got an email from this lady on a Friday, we emailed each other over the weekend and decided to meet up on the Monday. This was May 2001. I proposed in August 2001, moved in with her in October 2001, we were married Easter 2002. We had a daughter July 2004!
So I can recommend online dating for this reason.
However: Previous to this, I met a few women from chat rooms etc and all turned out to have baggage and one of them turned into abit of a psycho host beast and well, i won't go into it here!!
Go into these dates with open eyes and take it slow!
Good luck
AB
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Mattius said:
don't put yourself down so much mate, if you had a good evening together and got along well thats all that matters. Plus she can't have that an interesting love life if shes on online dateing!
Drop her a mail / sms and arrage to go out again, go for a nice meal somewhere and you'll find out then if shes interested
Good luck matey!
did you tell her there is a multi page thread on a pc forum about the date? 
just because someone sounds interesting and has such a varied life, doesnt mean they dont like to chill.
i have found before that some people like to come home to a chilled out person who has their feet on the ground.
something could happen yet, if it doesnt then atleast its experience. next time you wont be so nervous :]
just because someone sounds interesting and has such a varied life, doesnt mean they dont like to chill.
i have found before that some people like to come home to a chilled out person who has their feet on the ground.
something could happen yet, if it doesnt then atleast its experience. next time you wont be so nervous :]
Siliconslave said:
its likely that she does, maybe she doesnt have the time to spend 1 night finding a bloke, then another night on a date. when 1 night online or a couple of hours over a few days emailing saves time, she can carry on with her busy life
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Morba said:
sssh, i'm trying to encorage him
its really quiet intersting to hear all the reasons that people go for online dating etc. Mainly its cause they don't seem to meet people in their job or social life that they like, and online dating you get to know about people a bit quicker....