Online dating

i feel im kinda bombarding her cause i spoken to her every day. specially as im still getting on and off signals from her.

i still sent her an e-mail, what harm can it do, and at the end of the day i might actually find out how she feels about me.
 
oh well she sent me an e-mail back just now saying she's not ready for a relationship, but would love to be friends.
quite a standard bumped response.
still gonna meet her next week for pool, so not all bad at least i gained a friend out of it all.
 
Mattius said:
oh well she sent me an e-mail back just now saying she's not ready for a relationship, but would love to be friends.
quite a standard bumped response.
still gonna meet her next week for pool, so not all bad at least i gained a friend out of it all.
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as you say you've got a friend outta it, and its allways good to expand your friendship groups, espeshally if there are attractive opposite sex friends :D

bit funny shes on a dateing site, but not ready for a relationship, but maybe shes just outta a relationship and a little unsure of what she wants too... anyhows don't look a gift horse in the mouth and nail her hot friends ;)
 
Perfect way to look at it, it's really win win and you can't expect the first person you meet online to fall in love and that be the happy ending. I'm sure most people took a few meetings befor they found someone they truely liked.

Always good to have another attractive female friend, but don't let her beat you at pool, never let a women beat you at pool.
 
i think her saying she's not ready for a relationship is just her way of saying she don't fancy me. after all she's off speeddating tonight.
 
Mattius said:
Anyone tried it?
after the bitter demise of my relationship a month ago or so. my sister thought it would be fun to put me on online dating sites, i was up for it so went along.
anyway whilst browsing away i sent a couple of e-mails to a couple of girls who i thought are out my league but thought what the heck.

got a shock when one of the girls e-mailed me back tonight. Im really excited, nervous and scared. She is absoloutly stunning and sounds a right good laugh. i haven't chatted anyone up or dated anyone in 7 odd years. im trying to be as normal as i can but its so wierd.

anyone had any good or bad expiereance with it?
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ive been a member for a few months now, signed up as full member too, met 2 girls and talking to 1 that im gonna be seeing (as a freind as shes dating)

i keep getting winks back at me and when i click on their profile they are hidden/deleted! :( *****

Just be YOURSELF! there is nothing worse than a girl seeing your fake side, or "trying to be" some one else, be your, you will regret it otherwise

good luck
 
somebody asked for sites.

the best i have found are match.com and datingdirect.co.uk but you have to pay for both of them and they ain't cheap.
 
well after another chat with my internet date i have come to the conclusion that many a man has and many more have yet to find out.

women were sent to this world to over complicate things.

men were sent to over simplify things.

biggest joke of the world.

im now so confused she was flirting on and off, she is uber nice, and uber funny but is giving such mixed signals. urrggggg! i hate women.

but then again if there was no chase it wouldn't be fun.
 
Thanks for the update, Matius, although im sorry to hear that you're getting the run-around a bit.

I understand the value of 'the chase', but wouldn't it be better to just outright ask her what her intentions are? Surely that way you won't be wasting time chasing her if she has no intentions of being your girlfriend.
I've been through this countless times, and I just get bored of it..if she wants attention then you two can be friends, or she can go and torment some other guy for kicks ;)

I think you should just have that frank conversation with her..if she says no, then at least you know, and you can move on to actually finding a girl who wants to be with you.

By the way, I met my current gf through match.com..its a great site.
 
Move on. Bonus points for having two or three 'bitches', as they like to be referred to, on the go at once.
 
according to a female friend, this is all a big test in the female world of does he really like me or is he just after a shag.
the female mind confuses the hell out of me but when put that way i can understand it.

but then again it could be just another he's such a nice guy i love him as a friend senario, which is all i seem to do nowadays.
 
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well that one never worked out but we are good friends, and im very glad i did it. its made me so much more relaxed about dating and around females all together. it was sure scary as hell to do but id advise everyone to do it.
That said im off out sometime this weekend to meet my second online date who seems awesome and amazingly without seeing her before we started chatting and decided to meet up, now she sent me pictures she is exactly the type of girl i would normally go for. but hey at the end of the day its all about having fun and meeting new people and if something happens its a bonus.

go for it guys, you won't regret it. worst comes to the worst you have a funny story to tell your mates.
 
LOL. This is quite an old thread that has been revived. And having just read through it, i too would love to hear some updates.

Its a great thread and hope mattius finds what he is looking for.
 
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