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lowrider007 said:
er, I'm sorry mate, but life's not allways as simple as "coz i'll bring him up properly & with guidance...." and that wil mean he/she will turn out perfect :rolleyes: .
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*eitherway, my boy WILL NOT be like that.........end of dude!
 
Until you've tried raising someone else's son or daughter in a relationship I don't think any of you can really comment with any accuracy. It's bloody difficult.

My GFs son is a lot younger, but he's still a mouthy PITA on occassion and sometimes I've really had to stop myself from giving him a good hiding.

There is nothing worse in my opinion then a child who has no respect and doesn't know when to shut up, but that's what happens when the child has no firm father figure to discipline him/her from birth.

I feel sorry for the OP TBH. Very few people have any idea of how difficult a situation it is.
 
LaEmeMexicana said:
*sorry dude, i have no time for people like that, & i never will......
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He's 13 and this is your attitude toward him? grow the **** up man. He's a child ffs. Have you ever sat down and spoken to him about how he feels about your coming into his life and living with his mum etc?

Start acting like an adult and get this resolved
 
MookJong said:
He's 13 and this is your attitude toward him? grow the **** up man. He's a child ffs. Have you ever sat down and spoken to him about how he feels about your coming into his life and living with his mum etc?

Start acting like an adult and get this resolved
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*i'll say it again, i have no time for people like that, he aint my prob, let the social deal with him..........'start acting like an adult', dont make me laugh dude......
when he was 8, he stabbed his sis with a 6" nail........nice :rolleyes:
 
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LaEmeMexicana said:
*i'll say it again, i have no time for people like that, he aint my prob, let the social deal with him..........'start acting like an adult', dont make me laugh dude......
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Are you for real? if he ain't your problem why are you on a message board telling us about the problems your having with him?
 
LaEmeMexicana said:
*i'll say it again, i have no time for people like that, he aint my prob, let the social deal with him..........'start acting like an adult', dont make me laugh dude......
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He's not your problem? I think he might be when you decided to get it on with his mum!

I have to say, it's a worrying attitude towards kids you have there. No one likes anti-social idiots, but you have an opportunity to make things better.

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I'm going to stop replying to this now - as you've pretty much ignored anything useful people have said. I guess you wanted people to say hell yeah, kick the crap out of him. I'm not excusing what he did, but at the end of the day, he's a child, and he needs some help. Your attitude suggests anything I might say is going to be ignored anyway...
 
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MookJong said:
He's 13 and this is your attitude toward him? grow the **** up man. He's a child ffs. Have you ever sat down and spoken to him about how he feels about your coming into his life and living with his mum etc?

Start acting like an adult and get this resolved
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His age excuses his behaviour then? How is the OP supposed to create and sustain a relationship with said child in that environment? The child chooses to act that way, no-one forces him.

Stop making pathetic excuses, the child's behaviour reads as being horrendous to me, the child needs to change not the OP.
 
MookJong said:
Are you for real? if he ain't your problem why are you on the message board telling us about the problems your having with him?
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*he aint a prob to me, read the original post properly, the NSPCC 'were' the prob...........:rolleyes:

'are you for real' :rolleyes:

end of.......
 
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MookJong said:
Are you for real? if he ain't your problem why are you on a message board telling us about the problems your having with him?
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Perhaps he wants advice from others in a similar situation, perhaps he wants reassurance he's dealing with the situation correctly. Doesn't take much intelligence to work that out really.

Why have you got such a hard on for him anyway?
 
The Mad Rapper said:
I just don't get some people. The idiots slagging you off on here have probably got no life experiance whatsoever, have probably never been in your situation yet see fit to practically label you a child abuser :confused:
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*i hear ya mate, let them 'think' what they like, it makes no odds to me.......or my wife :p
 
The Mad Rapper said:
His age excuses his behaviour then? How is the OP supposed to create and sustain a relationship with said child in that environment? The child chooses to act that way, no-one forces him.

Stop making pathetic excuses, the child's behaviour reads as being horrendous to me, the child needs to change not the OP.
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Yes his behaviour is horrendous but the environment he grew up in are probably the cuase. The attitude of the OP is hardly helping the kid reform his ways.
 
The Mad Rapper said:
I just don't get some people. The idiots slagging you off on here have probably got no life experiance whatsoever, have probably never been in your situation yet see fit to practically label you a child abuser :confused:
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Big assumption there. Idiot with no life experience? I've not labelled anyone a child abuser nor excused the lad's actions. I've simply suggested a way of looking at why the 13 year old might be like that. It's a shame to see youngsters condemned to a life of anti social behaviour, but when I see things like 'people like that deserve a good hiding' it's not going to change.
 
The Mad Rapper said:
His age excuses his behaviour then? How is the OP supposed to create and sustain a relationship with said child in that environment? The child chooses to act that way, no-one forces him.

Stop making pathetic excuses, the child's behaviour reads as being horrendous to me, the child needs to change not the OP.
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Everything happens for a reason, tell me why he behaves like this?
 
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