Increasing the voltage and trying to wing an overclock is not the way to go. Each card is different so you'll need to do it incremently whilst using unigene for benchmarks, then play something like BF3 for half an hour after you're stable in Unigene. If you get crashes, grey screens in game then reduce the Memory speed and try it again.
What Joe Bloggs got for his overclock or seeing results on 3D Mark vantage gives you something to aim for. However what these don't tell you is whether their setups are under water or air; what temps they got and what fan profile they were running.
When I did my 7850 (see below) I could monitor temperatures and when gpu throttling occured. Doing it this way I found the sweet spot for my fan profile (loudness) vs temps and maximum overclock. By taking a wild stab in the dark you'll never know this.
HTH