Maybe you should just go, that way you get a week away from the wife too 
I'm in a similar position, we have a few things booked over the next few months. We'll probably go on them though rather than lose out. Hopefully they all get cancelled and we can get our money back.

I'm in a similar position, we have a few things booked over the next few months. We'll probably go on them though rather than lose out. Hopefully they all get cancelled and we can get our money back.