The state of the garden from when I first moved in just under two years ago.
How it currently is today.
It has taken some time to try and tidy it up with soo little spare time to use.
Still loads to be done, need a new patio I also need to rip out the grass and start again since its all uneven. My idea is to raise near to the house and have a little wall that can be doubled up as seating on the patio. Yet I have no real idea what I am doing .
Any hints tips would really be appreciated.
I'm not a pro gardener, and can't really offer any tips apart from really basic ones.
The temptation for me is to buy loads of different plants, and in the end that seems to result in a bit of a chaotic mess. Sometimes less is more (fewer plants but repeated).
A variety of different heights in your planting always looks better than a sea of same-level planting.
A pond is always awesome and really great for interest and wildlife - but a pond has little/no winter interest, it's all spring/summer/early autumn with ponds.
You probably need some big structural plants/small-to-medium trees. A fruit tree perhaps?
You also need to decide on a theme, type of garden. Native planting, cottagey? Exotic? Praerie?
Plants with a bit of movement are really nice to look at. I've gotten a few different types of grasses and it's just fantastic watching them sway around in the breeze. Too little movement (lots of woody shrubs or ground cover plants) makes the place look lifeless.
Scent is also a big thing for me. I love plants that smell really over-powering and pungent, but that's coz I have no sense of smell
You probably want a few evergreens for winter interest, or some plants that have nice fall colouration. Winter is a bit of a drab time in the garden.
Lastly you probably shouldn't expect to get it all right on the first go. Gardens are continually evolving and iterating. It's most of the fun of it. Getting stuck in, making changes here and there.
That said, you do want to get the basic structure right first time, esp if planting trees, etc. Decide where the paths go, etc, and be happy with it. Straight paths from front to back make the place look smaller, where a meandering, curved, or zigzag path will make it look bigger and not draw your eye straight to the back.
You might also want to have a big area in the middle that you have to go around, in order to see what's behind (a screen of big shrubs or whatever). Being able to see the whole thing (all four sides) at once again makes it look smaller/less interesting.
Everything is possible