Say what you like matey, it really doesn't bother me and I think your response show a lot more about you than it does me.
When I was 10 my parents split up. I had 5 years of hell in that time, for various reasons, a lot of which caused me a lot of problems that have taken many years to get over and some I still deal with. I went from a normal working class family environment to one that would in modern times be relying on food banks and be considered well below the poverty line. I own my average family home, I own my car, I work full time and have 2 amazing kids and a list of things I want (cars, bikes, bigger house etc), but, if the worst happens and I had to choose between material things and my kids going through what I went through I'd buy an acre of farmland from a farmer mate and live in a caravan if I had it. It's nothing to do with altruism, it is about experience and priorities. My kids come first.