This is perhaps something I shouldn’t post about but I’m pretty torn up about what I should be doing..
Basically, my gf is or ‘was’ having ultrasound guided steroid injections for pain management due to Morton’s Metatarsalgia in her feet.
Since the procedure, sadly she has put on a massive amount of weight, and despite warnings about how excessive weight can further compound the issue of pain in her feet, she has decided that she simply doesn’t care.
She has gone from a size 10 – 18 in a matter of months…. She firmly blames the treatment and seems to think that the injections will come out of her and she’ll lose the additional weight without a lifestyle change. I don’t think she will.
I don’t know what I should do, as I talked to her about it, and she accused me of no longer liking her as I now perceive her as fat.
I’ve offered to go swimming with her, as she can go swimming and not affect the pain in her feet, and offered to place myself on the same diet to reduce salt and sugars, as advised by her consultants.
I feel her attitude towards the increase in weight and not wanting to do anything about it is pretty upsetting, as I feel myself finding her less attractive all the time. And for this I feel very bad. I should love her for what she is, and not how she looks, and I know the injections have changed her body, but what do I do?
I nearly let her go a week ago, and it hurt her badly, and she has now started to swim, but she still refuses to change her diet, and continues to eat rather unhealthy imo.
In the last few weeks it has been harder and harder for me to stay with her, but somehow when we talk, I do feel for her – she is now listed as disabled and therefore I do feel as if I’m being very selfish…
I should support her in her illness and the fact she can’t walk all that far, and is on painkillers 24/7 but I do feel she doesn’t help herself…..
I’m on the fence, I do love her, we have made plans for the future and she does want to lose the weight for her own health but doesn’t take any advice – plus there is now the added complication that I have found the excess body weight very unattractive.
Please, no nasty comments…. Thank you.
Basically, my gf is or ‘was’ having ultrasound guided steroid injections for pain management due to Morton’s Metatarsalgia in her feet.
Since the procedure, sadly she has put on a massive amount of weight, and despite warnings about how excessive weight can further compound the issue of pain in her feet, she has decided that she simply doesn’t care.
She has gone from a size 10 – 18 in a matter of months…. She firmly blames the treatment and seems to think that the injections will come out of her and she’ll lose the additional weight without a lifestyle change. I don’t think she will.
I don’t know what I should do, as I talked to her about it, and she accused me of no longer liking her as I now perceive her as fat.
I’ve offered to go swimming with her, as she can go swimming and not affect the pain in her feet, and offered to place myself on the same diet to reduce salt and sugars, as advised by her consultants.
I feel her attitude towards the increase in weight and not wanting to do anything about it is pretty upsetting, as I feel myself finding her less attractive all the time. And for this I feel very bad. I should love her for what she is, and not how she looks, and I know the injections have changed her body, but what do I do?
I nearly let her go a week ago, and it hurt her badly, and she has now started to swim, but she still refuses to change her diet, and continues to eat rather unhealthy imo.
In the last few weeks it has been harder and harder for me to stay with her, but somehow when we talk, I do feel for her – she is now listed as disabled and therefore I do feel as if I’m being very selfish…
I should support her in her illness and the fact she can’t walk all that far, and is on painkillers 24/7 but I do feel she doesn’t help herself…..
I’m on the fence, I do love her, we have made plans for the future and she does want to lose the weight for her own health but doesn’t take any advice – plus there is now the added complication that I have found the excess body weight very unattractive.
Please, no nasty comments…. Thank you.