Question about cheating...

[mcast]

My friend found out his girlfriend of 14 years was cheating oh him with a married guy at work. He's now kicked her out the house and is obviously heartbroken.

Would you tell the wife of the married guy if you were my friend? they have 2 young kids, so it would pretty traumatic for them and you would basically be creating yet another broken home.

edit: it's a 6 month+ affair that is probably still going on

 

[J1234]

Yes.

 

[asim18]

No. Ignorance is bliss.

 

[Gilly]

Probably, yes.

More through anger than any sense of morality though.

 

[cm1179]

i'd keep out of it

 

[Azza]

Yeah!

 

[ElliottJames]

Oh, that was your girlfriend ;o

 

[Jonny69]

None of my business. I'm not telling anyone anything.

 

[Redz]

i'd keep out of it

 

[ChrisSmith3]

I would, mostly out of anger, but partly because the wife is most likely better off knowing about it.

 

[mundstick]

If I was able to rational and level headed... no, i would say anything to them. The likelihood is it will come out at some point anyway.

But again, thats easy to say as someone not caught up in the emotion

 

[The__Malteser]

Yes. he ****ed up my life, I **** up his.

Nobody heard of Dan from Painkiller Already (probs not )

 

[mcast]

i'd keep out of it

I'm saying doing and nothing, I meant should he say something?

 

[Danfoss2011]

Id tell her out of the princable of the matter, never know she might be game

 

[ennogs]

Probably, yes.

More through anger than any sense of morality though.

That would be me as well.

 

[Freefaller]

In anger - possibly.

In cold sober thought, no. Why break a home? It's none of my business. I don't meddle in other people's lives, it's not for me. If I was directly affected by this, then my outlook may be different, but as a bystander I think whilst people feel it would be the "right thing" to do, I can't help but feel it would also cause more trouble than good. The affair might be a short lived thing (not that I'm condoning it) and the person may realise the errors of his ways and go back to this family and have a great life.

It's not straight cut for me.

 

[Souleh]

girlfriend of 14 years

Now thats dragging your feet

 

[asim18]

I meant should he say something?

No. Especially since there's children involved. It could make matters much worse.

 

[Metalface Mark]

I think if he wants to tell her, then thats fair enough, but its not anyone else's place to tell.

 

[Redz]

I'm saying doing and nothing, I meant should he say something?

it would pretty traumtic for them and you would basically be creating yet another broken home.

Think you answered your own question.