Lol 'Crysis doesn't count cause its NV sponsored/optimised'
Likewise 'Use GRID it's fair!'
Different games will inheriently run better on different architectures. Same with CPUs some apps favour one design over another. ATI's architecture means it can potentially yoyo between extreme performance, and just average (or even poor) performance. NV's will generally be more stable. You can even see this frame to frame in the same game:
Discounting any game just because it doesn't give you the results you want is ludicrous - and that goes for both sides. Pick the games you like the most and get the card that performs the best with them. Who cares what other people think? It's what works for you and that's all that matters.