So, it still hadn't posted when I got up so I forced a shutdown and it started up straight away. It is still running at the same speed though (3600MT/s).
This is what the timings look like on CPU-Z
It is the same for every slot. The recommended voltage for my RAM is 1.25v. I don't know what the voltage is at the moment, 1.1v or 1.35v (i thought the max was 1.3v)
I have no idea how to change the timings or frequency (or if its even worth it).