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No I agree with that, you can certainly gain performance by repasting in some cases. On your 3080, Dell being Dell will only give you something that is sufficient and I'd expect you can improve on that by applying better quality paste and applying it in a better way than Dell or their OEM would give you, as you have done.An OEM is going to install a thermal paste that lasts the length of the cards warranty, keeps the card within spec at a certain price point which is why as you say people can go many years without repasting.
But that doesn't mean there isn't a performance uplift to be gained from replacing the OEM paste with a TIM better thermal properties. It's the same reason people buy a GPU then slap a water block on it.
I wouldn't expect to repaste this 4080s FE for at least 3 years and likewise for the 3080 FE that preceded it though.