skills are learnt,you can be naturally talented but not natually skilled. Well at least thats what I remember from a level PE about 5 years ago.NiCkNaMe said:How I see it, is that people are giving a skillset totalling 100%. .
skills are learnt,you can be naturally talented but not natually skilled. Well at least thats what I remember from a level PE about 5 years ago.NiCkNaMe said:How I see it, is that people are giving a skillset totalling 100%. .
jamoor said:also I have very little feelings for others, not in a selfish way,
for example if someone tells me xyz is in hospital and all i can think is big deal (dont flame me on this, its just the way I am)
But on the other hand I think of other people in day to day situations, holding doors open, thank you etc etc, manners I suppose.
Mickey_D said:He was doing algebra at the age of 7. He can understand the concepts in calculus better than I can. Give him the chance, and he'll rip apart ANY computer program, change it to his needs / wants, then recompile (or whatever you do nowadays) it back into working order.
For every person like this, though, I know ten more who are incredibly gifted but still have 'interpersonal skills' or 'life experience' or 'common sense' or whatever it is that gets you by in the world without stabbing yourself with scissors.dmpoole said:I have a Brother In Law who is a Professor at Liverpool University but he hasn't got a clue about real life and sometimes its like talking to a 5 year old.
Arcade Fire said:For every person like this, though, I know ten more who are incredibly gifted but still have 'interpersonal skills' or 'life experience' or 'common sense' or whatever it is that gets you by in the world without stabbing yourself with scissors.
It's not like there's a magic balance, and if you're naturally gifted to be an incredible mathematician/musician/artist then you invariably lack people skills. Most incredibly intelligent people are otherwise perfectly normal.
Old Turkey said:I believe in "giftedness" to an extent. Someone like Kim Peek is gifted. He can recall anything he reads, which he reads at breakneck speed. This isnt something he has cultivated, it is seemingly natural. But what skills has he cultivated? From what I can tell, absolutely none.
Einstein was quoted as saying that he was no more gifted than the next person, however, what distinguished himself from all others was that he persisted with the problem at hand for far longer than anyone else.
I believe, truly believe, this is what seperates the very best from everyone else.
You see, to call someone gifted is a complete insult, because it presupposes that the individual in question was somehow magically endowed with their abilities. Heaven forbid it should cross the minds of others that the root of a so called "gifted" persons abilities was sheer, unwaivering hardwork, persistance and personal belief in oneself?
In a world of laziness and lack of personal responsibility such as ours, its all to easy for most to simply label those who persist and work very hard as gifted, because it exonerates those who couldnt be bothered to put in the time and effort, of the shame they feel, deep down inside, that comes along with submitting and hoisting up the white flag in the face of a problem.
I agree.Scuzi said:I had one of those in my class at school. He knew a lot of facts and could do stupidly complicated calculations in a matter of seconds but had no real world experience to put any of it to use. He was totally devoid of any social skills as he studied 24/7. I kind of felt sorry for the guy, was more like a machine than a person.
In his case I think he was just naturally 'gifted'. I don't consider it a gift, I consider it a handicap. These sort of people aren't of any use in the real world as they lack any sort of communication or interaction skills.
Old Turkey said:Folk do have time to learn! They, however, have no desire to. When you think about it, most people in general do not harbour the necessary beliefs, values and virtues.
People, in general, live life on autopilot doing the same things that are comfortable and familiar, because the constant and continuous repitition has bred a habit. If ones surroundings and culture consists of intellectual laziness, where spending 'me time' peaks with sitting in front of the television or participating in any other kind of activity which does not stimulate and challenge, one will end up doing that on autopilot without any conscious recognition of it, permanently. I think only close introspective examination of oneself will enable one to recognise this, which will lead to realisations about oneself, empowering that person to make changes consciously, in my view.