Relationship advice
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when she went out with the friend did she come home late?
Mate communication is the key!
Sit her down and first tell her that she means the world to you, then say you feel like you're drifting apart and you want to fix it, say communication is important and she needs to open up about it and you'll support her no matter what it is.
Then maybe you can also say with how you're feeling with it becoming distant, you felt a TINY bit jealous and a LITTLE bit threatened by the fact she went on a dinner date with another dude and hopefully she will reassure you. It is important to play it off that it really didn't bother you that much (dont want to come across as a jealous freak), but you want to be open about how you feel.
I personally dont trust women and think that if a girl suddenly goes distant with you then starts meeting an old friend its possible hes trying to bone her and shes got feelings for him. but thats me so dont look into that bit too much. 7 months isn't that long
Sit her down and first tell her that she means the world to you, then say you feel like you're drifting apart and you want to fix it, say communication is important and she needs to open up about it and you'll support her no matter what it is.
Then maybe you can also say with how you're feeling with it becoming distant, you felt a TINY bit jealous and a LITTLE bit threatened by the fact she went on a dinner date with another dude and hopefully she will reassure you. It is important to play it off that it really didn't bother you that much (dont want to come across as a jealous freak), but you want to be open about how you feel.
I personally dont trust women and think that if a girl suddenly goes distant with you then starts meeting an old friend its possible hes trying to bone her and shes got feelings for him. but thats me so dont look into that bit too much. 7 months isn't that long
Find out where the male friend lives and..........
+ poop!
I wouldn't have it myself, if she was going out for a drink with a few friends male and female not a problem.
But a single male + female + meal + alcohol = Pasty time.
7 months in a relationship is nothing so I would be suspect as hell.
Time to get on tinder me thinks or grinder if you fed up of women.
I would take a back seat and see what happens, get into the mind set that it wont last.
haha yeah!!
Activate self preservation mode!!!
Reduce spending on said female
Secretly save up money for a holiday
become really pally with her girl mates
if shes cheated then nob one of her friends and take her on holiday.
revenge complete
He did ask on GD he knew what to expect.
It does sound moody though so I would play it by ear.
He did ask on GD he knew what to expect.
It does sound moody though so I would play it by ear.
Exactly, one does not simply stop trolling.
I did post a serious reply, followed by troll reply
He did ask on GD he knew what to expect.
It does sound moody though so I would play it by ear.
Actually I asked in speakers discussion and it was moved
Thanks for the info guys I need to have a think
My advice Neil is just be yourself.
You are not married with children and a mortgage. Don't be grasping. Enjoy the time you spend together but until you are 100% sure you can't live without her don't let her under your skin.
Girls are attracted to fellas who are doing a lot of things and don't be available all of time time. You don't have to be tit for tat and take an old flame to dinner but if you are dating rather than boyfriend girlfriend then you keep socialising and see her as much or as little as you want.
There are loads of girls out there. Make sure you pick a cracker.
Best wishes
You are not married with children and a mortgage. Don't be grasping. Enjoy the time you spend together but until you are 100% sure you can't live without her don't let her under your skin.
Girls are attracted to fellas who are doing a lot of things and don't be available all of time time. You don't have to be tit for tat and take an old flame to dinner but if you are dating rather than boyfriend girlfriend then you keep socialising and see her as much or as little as you want.
There are loads of girls out there. Make sure you pick a cracker.
Best wishes
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Why do you even let her have male friends and why didn't she ask for your permission for meeting up with another male (who is probably beta)? And if she goes out for dinner, who is cooking your dinner? She's clearly selfish and doesn't know her limits so you need to reset the boundaries and remind her of her lowly station. Maybe cut back on the allowance you give her too.
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[FnG]magnolia;30181833 said:
You're not getting it, the other male is probably Alpha (unless he paid for the meal) because women cheat with Alpha's or at least Beta+ (if he paid for the meal) beta to beta makes no sense, that's just gamma.
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