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CDj-Rossi said:
Reason your last relationship went bust: She had wayyyy too much baggage and blatantly had feelings for her ex still! She just looked for a reason to end it and then toddled back off to him eventually! She'll get what she deserves soon anyway because her ex will eventually do what he did to her again.
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Actually, this nearly sums up what i meant ^^^
 
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Status: Engaged

Time together: almost 7 years

Feelings about it: I'm very happy.

Reason your last relationship went bust: Can't remember it was a while ago. :p
 
Status: Single.

Time together/time alone: Forever.

Feelings about it: Fairly indifferent most of the time but occasionally it gets lonely. That's when I have to de-sober myself.

Reason your last relationship went bust: n/a
 
[TW]Fox;15190713 said:
Don't think I'm singling you out because I'm not, you are just the last post in the thread but...

....so many people appear to have ended relationships because the girl was thick/stupid/boring/a moron/ugly/whatever.

Why did you go out with them in the first place? :p
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Well, she was quite good looking and everyone loves a bit of attention right? :)

She'd previously been in a relationship for about 4 years and after about 2/3 months it was clear to me she wasn't ready for another one so i ended stuff before i got to invested into it.
 
[TW]Fox;15190713 said:
Don't think I'm singling you out because I'm not, you are just the last post in the thread but...

....so many people appear to have ended relationships because the girl was thick/stupid/boring/a moron/ugly/whatever.

Why did you go out with them in the first place? :p
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Well, tbh you did single *him* out. But I do echo the sentiment.
 
if we're adding why we got together to the statements too, mine would be because she was stunningly hot, a really good laugh, had the same sense of humour as me, and we got on really well, we still do, just less naked :p
 
Status: In a relationship

Time together/time alone: 6 months

Feelings about it: Going good.

Reason your last relationship went bust: Because I was a cheating, lying, hateful boyfriend.

Got together in the first place because we lived opposite each other in uni halls. Was really good, however living together from day 1 isn't the best plan in the world. Stayed together 2 years, during which time I did nasty things that she tried but could not forgive me for.
 
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Status: Dumpsville

Time together/time alone: 2-3 years / 5 months

Feelings about it: Bitter and twisted about her not being honest about her feelings towards the end of the relationship and keeping up a pretence; sad that I've lost a companion to knock around with; sad about the loss of someone who I thought was a friend; confused about the way things ended and the 'tipping point'; grief about the loss; relief about their being no more arguments; gratitude for how her positive emotions have had a good influence on me; wiser for having spent time with someone who offers a perspective on things that is different to my own; lonely that there's no constant companion to known with anymore; less stressed because less emotional energy is required of me; relief that I'm no longer spending money like its going out of fashion; anxiety about what the future holds; down.

Reason your last relationship went bust: Lots of reasons. But to name a few...geographical distance; more emotionally high maintenance than I could manage on long term basis; emotional baggage; emotional neediness; tiredness - me living in Bristol, working in London and having to travel to Sheffield; stressful demanding jobs; lack of geographical / job stability; stop/start visits; insufficient time together; insufficient 'intimate' communication; not being able to do enough 'everyday' things together; taking her for granted at times; being a crap boyfriend at times; inability to successfully resolve conflicts or differences of opinion; not properly dealing with issues as they arose; interfering parents (on her part); stubborness; insufficiently interfering parents (on my part); crazy tantrums from her at times; insecurity; blame; accusations; ingratitude; selfishness; insufficient understanding; not enough acceptance; increasing resentful; different stages in our lives; age difference; discrepancy in life experiences; arguably (on her part), too much need for affirmation, validation and the satisfying of needs rather than real love, which asks for nothing in return.
 
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Status: Married

Time together/time alone: Years.

Feelings about it: Well, can't be arsed to train another.

Reason your last relationship went bust: Mainly because i just couldn't be bothered.
 
Status: In a long distance relationship

Time together: Unofficially 1y2m, officially, 11 months

Feelings about it: Pretty awesome, but sometimes hard, good excuse for lots of holidays

Reason your last relationship went bust: She was crazy, dumped me because I couldn't come pick her up after some "friends" had ditched her in the woods, when I was on a train home from London, and drunk... Later found out that ~2 months after she dumped me, she was banged up by some other guy, luckily I didn't enter that dark void.
 
Status: Single

Time alone: almost 2 years

Feelings about it: Mixed. I love the freedom of doing what I want and the randomness of everything that I do but I miss the affection, love and the feeling of sharing my life with someone special.

Reason your last relationship went bust: I am an idiot and thought the grass was greener!
 
Status: Single

Time together: For 2 Months before the Summer.

Feelings about it: Would prefer to have a girlfriend.

Reason your last relationship went bust: Girlfriend left the country to go home (she was an exchange student).
 
Status: Single

Time alone: Quite a while.

Feelings about it: Relatively happy with it - women are nutjobs, I have no time to dedicate to them (remember they're nutjobs and it requires effort to not set off a mine) and right now I like being myself.

Reason your last relationship went bust: Ex turned into her mother. Decided, overnight, she didn't want to be with me anymore and that's that. 2yrs down the pooper.

EDIT - still hurts. Well, no, annoys me.
 
Status: Married for 8 years

Feelings about it: Fantastic, love every day together:D

Reason last relationship went bust: Ex wife had an affair (not the first mind as like an idiot i let her stay the first time), not to mention she is a complete nut job-what the hell did i ever see in that:confused::mad:?
 
Corran said:
Tah sara :), and yeah it was SamX, drink driver... says it all really.

Still... time passes and I think I'm mostly over the moping now and continuing my studies in The Netherlands, it's not something I'm sure I will get over entirely though unfortunately.
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*BIGGER HUGS..... in a manly way of course!*

Stelly
 
sara said:
Well I've dumped a boyfriend for exactly the same reason - I knew I found it easy to fancy other men so it was time to go...

...which only proves that men and women are much the same. Lots of happily taken folk here! Male dominated forum, clearly you'll hear lots of stories which make the lasses look bad :P
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Thats because you are ALL eeeeeeevil :)

Stelly
 
Status: Married

Time together 31 years

Feelings about it: I'm used to it now :D

Reason your last relationship went bust: Too long ago to remember
 
Status: Single

Time together/time alone: 7 months

Feelings about it: Solitude is the only salvation.

Reason your last relationship went bust: She was self righteous.
 
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