Relationship Status

Status: Girlfriend

Time together/time alone: 6 years this November

Feelings about it: Great!, weird to consciously say/think I have a 'partner'. It isn't without its problems, but that (to me) is what a long term relationship involves.

Reason your last relationship went bust: We were tired of hurting each other.
 
Freefaller said:
Why? Scared you'll look a fool?

Ok, maybe you have a point, pint in Cyprus like last year? :D
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Aye, bring Sweaty as well :D

semi-pro waster said:
Do you mind, the pair of you are talking as if I'm not here or I don't have feelings...

Anyway now I've been suckered into this thread by these havers, I'm single at the moment, I'm not averse to the idea of a relationship, I'm just not in one. And before either of the two loons above say anything that's not an invitation, anyway G|mp I thought you still had young Barry?
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Single you say?

Yes I do still have young Barry but he's very open minded in regards to my relationships, just don't come round when Liverpool have lost as he gets a bit tetchy.
 
Status: Married

Time together: 9.5 years (married 4.5)

Feelings about it: Great, as good now as it was 9.5 years ago, own detached house in a great area with wife that is 32 but still gets asked for ID :) and 2 cats bliss.

Reason your last relationship went bust: Err She wanted a career in London, I didn't . Decent split though with no hard feelings, it had run its course :)
 
Status: Engaged

Time together/time alone: 4 years 2 months

Feelings about it: errr, yeah its all good.

Reason your last relationship went bust: Neither of us made the effort to go and see the other person much.
 
Status: Taken

Time together/time alone: Officially, 3 weeks. But been seeing each other for around 2 months

Feelings about it: I'm happy, still in the honeymoon period at the moment so who knows what's around the corner! :p

Reason your last relationship went bust: I was dumped so that she could get with one of my (not anymore) friends.
 
Status: Single

Time together/time alone: 4yrs and 6mths

Feelings about it: Don't mind being alone, but would be nice to have the odd female company now and then for those nice cuddles and what not. Haven't dated since Aug 2008. Made a few attempts recently but none bear fruit (ie they cancelled on me).

Reason your last relationship went bust: At the time I was engaged, but living all the way in Aberdeen made it difficult to be closer to my friends and my son who all live in Newcastle. Plus we were arguing a lot so I left her.
 
Status: In a relationship

Time together: 8 months

Feeling about it: Really happy, obviously there has to be arguments, but these are resolved quickly, Shes beautiful and most of all extremely thoughtful...

Reason your last relationship went bust: Basically there was no connection...
 
Status: With girlfriend

Time Together: 2 years, 7 months

Feelings About It: Currently 6 hours apart at different ends of the country while she's at Uni, which is a drag. Sometimes I don't find her that attractive, but really love being with her. Sometimes she annoys the hell out of me. Sometimes wish I had someone closer/blonder/better in bed, but don't want to risk losing her and not getting the good stuff back.

Reason Last Relationship Went Bust: N/A, above is first real one.
 
Status: Taken

Time together/time alone: 2 months, of which we've spent >80% of our time together.

Feelings about it: Never been this happy,going to be asking for her hand in marriage in January :).

Reason your last relationship went bust: Rebound for both of us.
 
Status : Single

Time Alone : 18 months

Feeling about it : Plenty of freedom but gets lonely at times as there is only so much you can do with friends and family. Do miss that special someone around.

Reason your last relationship went bust : She felt we were too different, I missed my family back home, She dumped me and I moved back to Liverpool.
 
monkeypants said:
Status: With girlfriend

Time Together: 2 years, 7 months

Feelings About It: Currently 6 hours apart at different ends of the country while she's at Uni, which is a drag. Sometimes I don't find her that attractive, but really love being with her. Sometimes she annoys the hell out of me. Sometimes wish I had someone closer/blonder/better in bed, but don't want to risk losing her and not getting the good stuff back.

Reason Last Relationship Went Bust: N/A, above is first real one.
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Well things like being better in bed etc are all things you can work on! (in an effort/communicate way).

If you like her as a friend, that's good - the mainstay of a relation is that she's your best friend that you have a laugh at life together.
If it's because it's the close company aspect then it's probably because that's new as it's your first gf..

The blonder bit.. well if it's a real problem you'll break up naturally as you'll drift apart.. the danger you have is that you're 6 hours apart so you'll not figure that out until you're both together again for an extended period of time. I go through cycles of being attracted to black hair, blonde hair, red hair but if I have a gf that means a damn then that's irrelevant.

I say that after a 3 year relationship with a girl in Boston US. All great but you only know each other once you've got yourself together. For me, she moved with her job to London for 6 months. We broke up after 4 months..

You'll just need to figure out what is important to you.
 
Status: Married

Time together: 7 years, see each other 3-4hrs per day

Feelings about it: Couldn't be happier........ apart from when she leaves crumbs everywhere, dishes left in the sink rather than in the dish washer, doesn't have tea ready when I get home, wants to use the computer when she can clearly see I'm trying to fight of a horde in L4D! :p

Only joking - as NickK said the best friends part is SO important. We were best mates for 2-3 years before we both started to like eachother - great way to start off a relationship IMO!
 
NickK said:
Well things like being better in bed etc are all things you can work on! (in an effort/communicate way).

If you like her as a friend, that's good - the mainstay of a relation is that she's your best friend that you have a laugh at life together.
If it's because it's the close company aspect then it's probably because that's new as it's your first gf..

The blonder bit.. well if it's a real problem you'll break up naturally as you'll drift apart.. the danger you have is that you're 6 hours apart so you'll not figure that out until you're both together again for an extended period of time. I go through cycles of being attracted to black hair, blonde hair, red hair but if I have a gf that means a damn then that's irrelevant.

I say that after a 3 year relationship with a girl in Boston US. All great but you only know each other once you've got yourself together. For me, she moved with her job to London for 6 months. We broke up after 4 months..

You'll just need to figure out what is important to you.
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It's all cool mate, we'd been together over a year when she went off to uni and it worked then. We do have a great time together and I do hope it continues.

I have the same hair attraction, but it's no reason to break up with someone. The only real think that bothers me is that she wants to move in together when she finishes uni in 2011 :eek:
 
Status: With girlfriend

Time Together: bout 9 years

Feelings About It: pretty good, she's chilled out a lot and is much more secure. we don't have too much in common in terms of interests but we're flexible enough to enjoy our time together and that. babies are next on the agenda

Reason Last Relationship Went Bust: i was a bit messed up.
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Is it just me? But i keep coming back to this thread because i find the Reason Last Relationship Went Bust bit interesting
 
Status: Single

Time alone: 16 months

Feelings about it: crap, I hate being single

Reason your last relationship went bust: many reasons but the main one was she needed more space for herself after being together for almost 5 years
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Status: living with someone

Time Together: 10 Months

Fellings about it: more like a flat mate tbh

Reason your last relationship went bust: my soon to be x wife was a complete and utter nut job yet she was fine before the ring went on her finger! weird
 
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