Relationship Status

Status: In a relationship

Time Together: 8.5 yrs. Lived together for past 3

Fellings about it: I tolerate him because he's good at putting up shelves, lifting heavy items and fixing my car ;)

Reason your last relationship went bust: He was a plank, so I got rid.
 
Well, it looks like you & G|mp have a little thing going on, so I guess I'll just have to go and satisfy my appetite for croissants elsewhere! Hmph!
 
Status: Single

Time together/time alone: 20 years 7 months.

Feelings about it: Girls just don't find me attractive.
 
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However, there's more to being with someone than physical attraction. I've seen both pretty and ugly girls with handsome and ugly men mixed and matched. I agree that looks are initially a strong instigator for getting things to happen, but that doesn't mean that things don't happen without it.
 
Status: Divorced then Re-Married

Time together/time alone: 16 years

Feelings about it: Matured, but at the same time feeling insure about it all. Guess it's my age.

Reason your last relationship went bust: I got my current wife pregant!!!
 
Well I might not mix enough to know plenty of girls, but it seems like the only way to get to know girls it to go clubbing :\, and I'm shy and nervous, I feel like I've got no chance, I mean I'm 20!!
 
willhub said:
Well I might not mix enough to know plenty of girls, but it seems like the only way to get to know girls it to go clubbing :\, and I'm shy and nervous, I feel like I've got no chance, I mean I'm 20!!
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Personally I find the best way to mix is through new friends, just meet new people and meet newer people through those people until you have a healthy social network.

I think the biggest challenge for making yourself attractive is believing in yourself. I know it sounds like a cop out but the biggest attraction is self assurance. If you are happy with yourself people will be happy with you, if your insecurities shine through too much then you make others feel insecure. Attraction is like an AOE buff, if you cast it they will come. Passive racial attractiveness is a cool trait, but not all of us had our skillpoints in that tree at birth.
 
To get to know girls you need to be publicly available - now that can be online through a dating agency or just getting out and about.

I was out at the local Sainsburys a couple of days ago and I could have sworn my Mojo was in full effect. I wasn't even paying attention rushing to get bits and pieces but looking back on it there was definitely interest! :D

So just get out and take a page from ze continental's book - hit everything with equal aplumb!
 
willhub said:
Well I might not mix enough to know plenty of girls, but it seems like the only way to get to know girls it to go clubbing :\, and I'm shy and nervous, I feel like I've got no chance, I mean I'm 20!!
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Have a read of a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss, its a very good informtive read. Most of the things that he writes about a spot on, there are a few bits in there that have a few question marks. On the whole though its well worth the read :)
 
andyd said:
Have a read of a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss
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Status: Single

Time together/time alone: 3 months

Feelings about it: Not sure, would love to have someone in my life to do stuff with, but equally being in the final year of Uni I need to concentrate on my work...

Reason your last relationship went bust: She seemingly went from wanting to see me all the time to barely wanting to see me. I guess I had enough of her spending every saturday night out in town getting drunk with her mates rather than doing something with me.
 
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