Relationship thread

anticonscience said:
She's 15/16 and your 18?

I dont want to sound harsh but be a realist about this, it wont last.

What makes you say that?

Im 19 and my other halfs 17, weve been together over a year.
One of my friends is 24, and shes been with the same guy since she was 15!
 
fatiain said:
18 and you have found your soul mate....?

*waits for the other sort of relationship thread from Aruffel*

</cynical old git>

Happy for you anyway :D

lmao I have to agree with you and in the cynical git moment though. I also have the same sentiments to the OP! ;)

fatiain said:
Think of the money you're going to save on tuesday!
</cynical old realist>
lmao okay stop it now, I am meant to be finishing off a report and the other half is wondering why it is funny! :D ;)
 
Hope for the best,
Prepair for the worst.

Take it slow, especially with young women, they tend to be very, very unpredictable.
Gets worse with age I hear.
 
Thanks to all of the people who wished us well etc...

I really like this girl so am going to do my best to make it work.

Only problem is her mum (who has had bad experience with blokes).

Her mum -

Won't allow me in the house when she is not there.
Won't allow her to come to my house.

Yesterday she was going to town with her cousin and her mum asked "who are you going to meet there? Andy?"

She said no but her mum insisted on talking to me on the phone.

So i get a phone call when i'm sitting over my mate (4 miles from the town)

All i hear is "are you going to town"

I was like "Wah?"

Again - "are you going to town"

Me - "No :S"

What can i do to stop her mum being so ARRRGHH lol

Andy
 
Rich_L said:

O' rly?

Mums are mums, they are fine once they get use to the idea and get use to it. Again don't do anything as her mum will be keeping guard over the laundry and probably analising it for slug trails :D
 
Aruffell said:
What can i do to stop her mum being so ARRRGHH lol

Andy

Best thing is to be understanding of her concern - after all, you are a fair bit older, it's natural for her to be worried or so on - come across as a friendly, happy and normal person who wants to be a good friend. Try not to be too mysterious with her, maybe have a little chat with her if she's around. Nothing big, but it could make your life much easier if you managed to persuade her you weren't someone to be scared of!
 
Well i'm not going to be doing her (not until she's 16, as i don't fancy getting done etc... even though she prob wouldn't but i won't be doing that until then anyway)

I was thinkin of what you sugestted pinkpig, just getting to know her mum and being myself and show that i do care about her daughter etc...

Time will tell i guess :)
 
Just tell her mum that you really fancy her dad and are using his daughter to get close to him.

This is guaranteed to stop her mum worrying about what you might be up to with her daughter.
 
Bar said:
Just tell her mum that you really fancy her dad and are using his daughter to get close to him.

This is guaranteed to stop her mum worrying about what you might be up to with her daughter.

Her dad don't live with them as he is a Merchant Banker who treated them all rough when he was around.

Andy
 
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