Does the bolt spin in the brake caliper? Is that how it's supposed to work? If so, then I can imagine that if I were to hold it in place I could turn the roundy-squarey nut with something and that would bind it in to the recessed nut in the fork. Is that right?
No, the long bolt through the caliper shouldnt turn.
Take it apart again, then thread the toothed washer onto the end of the long bolt through the caliper. That toothed nut might have a slightly curved face on one side to match up with the curve of your fork tube, or it may not.
Next, put the caliper into the hole in the front of your fork and put the long nut (with the flat edges) into the hole on the back to meet it.
You should be able to use an allen key on the end of that nut to tighten it. You might also have a flat edge on the caliper bolt where you can get a spanner on to hold the caliper while you turn the allen bolt at the back (dont turn the spanner, just use it to keep the caliper aligned).
I really like it though tbh. Considering it as an alternative to the Canyon SLX.
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