You needed to buy a much more expensive motherboard and triple / quad channel ram for those which has never been useful for gaming. HEDT (High End Desktop Range) as they were called were not intended for gaming or general everyday PC use.
Dual channel ram running at higher frequency / tighter timings always outperforms quad channel in most situations, mainly gaming.
I think people forget that up until recently the general desktop market didn't need more than 4c4t. In fact I'd hazard a guess that 99% of people buying an average desktop pc still don't need more than 4c4t . At the time the 6 core+ Intel HEDT cpu's were aimed at hardcore enthusiasts, content creators, professionals etc etc and arguably the platform offered a lot more than just higher core count cpu's.
AT that time AMD indeed offered 6 core + desktop cpu's the problem was those cpu's at the time had rubbish single threaded performance that wasn't really compensated by the multi-threaded performance either.
Going back to rocket lake, the performance uplift for a new architecture is a bit meh, its a regression in core count on the i9 which has been expected for a long time because it was a back port but comet lake aside its not a poor cpu by any stretch of the imagination, it will offer blistering fast gaming performance and do everything most desktop users will ask of it. The problem is that it's competing with last gen Comet and AMD at the same time and PCI 4 is a bit of a non starter and not worth upgrading for yet on any platform.
I think its a great time to be a pc enthusiast (aside from the shortages) Both AMD and INTEL offer silly fast cpu's so whether you're just gaming, just benching or doing some sort of professional work both have you covered and neither will give you a sub par experience.