Yes, I wrote a letter saying that I had not tried to conceal anything and that I was unaware of her past until this point. I also mentioned the time it took and the runaround I'd gone through to get to this stage but simply had a generic "we're sorry you've been applying for 2+ years but due to the data protection act we cannot give specifics or further details etc". It also went on to say that the decision stands and that I am excluded from ever applying again
To put this in to some context, I've never had so much as a parking ticket. I don't drink unless it's one or two on a Christmas/birthday/new year, never smoked, very athletic / fit, and haven't taken a single unauthorised day off work. To be punished for something I had no control over and that happened before I ever met her seemed like a massive over-reaction.
I'll admit I was devastated... I'd trained and prepared for everything, so I knew my next step was a uniform fitting and start date. I was essentially waiting for the call. The silly thing is I could have ignored the letter and just updated my personal details after my start date (referencing my marriage status( and no one would be any the wiser. I purely did it on the letter just incase their check revealed that I was married and it caused problems (irony much?)
I'd imagine I'd be allowed to apply now as I'm divorced from her, but I've moved on and have no interest in going through all that again.