Second Life Ruined my Marriage!!..

Simian

Simian

Simian

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Well, we were split up anyway!... Just living in the same house waiting for it to sell (fat chance at the moment!)..

I dunno if this is more embarrassing for me or her!!, The fact that our marriage split due to no intervention from a third party or the fact that she's now 'Humping' some random yank in cyberspace!!... :mad:

Dunno if you guys have seen 'Second Life'!.. Its.. well a Second life in Cyberspace where you can escape, shop, get a job, dance.. etc... Anyhew!..

Basically yesterday night she told me she's got friendly with some random yank in second life, his avatar is Tall (8 or 9 foot tall), Dark, and hansom (how stereotypical :rolleyes:).. She's spent the last week (she's on holiday) online in SL for about 8 hours a day sometimes more!... Chatting, Playing Mah-jong, and buying clothes, Shoes and skins!...

She say's they're only chatting and flirting!.

Well Yesterday I didn't see her at all... She was online from 6am (I went to work about 7ish)... and she was still going when I got home at 6pm..

The Door was open a crack (one of the cats was in there with her) and I could see her (her avatar) Dancing with said random!... Later that night passing the room she was in a boat cuddling with him... then Later Kissing in a field of roses... then more dancing!.. All the while furiously typing.

So I went to bed feeling very jealous and angry!.. I still love her very much and this hurt like hell!! (no I'm not some love sick puppy teen I'm 35!).

At about 1:20ish I needed a pee so I got up, and walking past the study she was still typing away but the screen behind appeared blank.. then a toned/tanned back-side came into view.. pumping up and down.. the picture revealed itself with her underneath and him on top pumping away laying on a beach whilst they were both typing!!... She went to bed about 1:45ish and I dunno what went on in her room after that!, but the cats came running out of there quite frightened!!..

Chatting and Flirting Pah!! :mad:..

Strange thing is.. Last Sunday, She wanted to stop the separation, Get back together!.. We BOTH only needed to work at it!!... Great work there!!.. 4 day's into patching things up!..

I'm the most angry I've been since this whole thing started 3 months ago!... She asked me the other day 'Do you Hate me?" to which I answered "No!.. Don't be silly!"... I think my answer now would be a resounding "YES!.." :o

4 Years of Marriage down the tubes for a (Very Sad) Fling with some Random Yank (Who's Probly either a 12 year old kid or some 30 stone Hairy 50 year old Geek still living with his parents!) in Cyberspace!..

Sim:(
 
ah good old MMO addiction.

thats pretty bad but she shouldnt be flirting and having sex whether in a game or not, its just something you dont do out of respect for your partner. You are 100% in the right i would do that same.

If you pay for the internet phone up and cancel it lol.
 
Simian said:
Well, we were split up anyway!... Just living in the same house waiting for it to sell (fat chance at the moment!)..
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Simian said:
4 Years of Marriage down the tubes for a (Very Sad) Fling with some Random Yank (Who's Probly either a 12 year old kid or some 30 stone Hairy 50 year old Geek still living with his parents!) in Cyberspace!..
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I'm just confused over this!!! You were split up anyway, so your wife (who I admit does need some help!!) is carrying on with her life doing what she wants but you're blaming the breakdown of your marriage over this, which you claim was over anyway.

What am I missing?
 
~J~ said:
I'm just confused over this!!! You were split up anyway, so your wife (who I admit does need some help!!) is carrying on with her life doing what she wants but you're blaming the breakdown of your marriage over this, which you claim was over anyway.

What am I missing?
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My thoughts exactly. This is slightly confusing and I can't work out if this is real or just wind up.
 
firstly Second life aint an MMO. It isn't a game, it is a chatroom.

Explain to her that although he seems nice, he is likely not in real life. I would let her meet him, when she comes crying back tell her to f off. muahaha.
 
~J~ said:
I'm just confused over this!!! You were split up anyway, so your wife (who I admit does need some help!!) is carrying on with her life doing what she wants but you're blaming the breakdown of your marriage over this, which you claim was over anyway.

What am I missing?
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hamesy said:
My thoughts exactly. This is slightly confusing and I can't work out if this is real or just wind up.
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Nope its not a wind-up!... :(

We're in the process of the '2 Year Separation with consent' which is a damn sight cheaper than 'Unreconcilable Differences' and easier than 'Adultery'... Plus were still living in the same house (albeit different bedrooms) till its sold!!..

But as I said on Sunday, she seemed to be wanting to get back together.. She thought she'd made a mistake!.. we were back in the same bed, doing things together, just like before!, then... BAM!... She goes and does this!...
 
Simian said:
Nope its not a wind-up!... :(

We're in the process of the '2 Year Separation with consent' which is a damn sight cheaper than 'Unreconcilable Differences' and easier than 'Adultery'... Plus were still living in the same house (albeit different bedrooms) till its sold!!..

But as I said on Sunday, she seemed to be wanting to get back together.. She thought she'd made a mistake!.. we were back in the same bed, doing things together, just like before!, then... BAM!... She goes and does this!...
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So prior to this "SL incident", you or her (you haven't said which) had commited Adultery?

If it's her, then sorry, but she's got a problem being faithful. Hard to accept, easier said than done, but do you really want a marriage to someone who you can't trust?
 
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