Should I send a message to this girl

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This girl invited me out for a drink last night,

she was dressed quite nicely

always asks me if I am seeing any girls.

Shes 7 years older than me and very attractive

She bought me 2 drinks

she said something about going down to the river for another drink

I just basically said no and Im going home and just left

what
 
I was thinking

'Thanks for the drinks last night. Sorry Im not used to drinking such strong drinks, I can't really remember but I hope I wasn't rude when I left. See you soon.'

Kind of sounds needy though
 
"I had a lovely time last night, I am sorry i left so abruptly and i hope i didnt offend you by doing so. I was really embarrassed i got so drunk so quickly and did not want to embarrass myself further so decided it best i left. I hope i didnt ruin our relationship as i really had a good time and you looked stunning"

This is right on the money if you are interested (if not then don't bother).
 
I was thinking

'Thanks for the drinks last night. Sorry Im not used to drinking such strong drinks, I can't really remember but I hope I wasn't rude when I left. See you soon.'

Kind of sounds needy though

Nah lol.

Do the one above from AndyCroft.

She will read yours as:
1. You used her for drinks;
2. You got hammered (she might think you needed beergoggles for her?)
3. You know you were rude, else why mention it? And you aren't man enough to fully accept and apologise for this.
4. You think you can brush over that with a 'see you soon'.
 
Should I send a message to this girl

From just reading the OP I've managed to conclude your interest lies somewhere other than "girls". So I'm not sure there's any point sending a message to the girl, unless it's to tell her you're homosexual. Not really hard is it? :p
 
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Remembers when I got very drunk on my 21st birthday and i was chatting up this girl outside a pub and she asked me to come back to her place and I replyed to her " sorry No thanks love am off into town to try find a woman".. :o :o :o
 
Either you're interested in dating at all or you're not.

Your OP says you aren't interested yet she's stunning, so until you decide whether you want to date anyone, you can't ask GD to comment.

Personally I'd be surprised if she wants another date with you tbh. First impressions last and I think from the sounds of it, you didn't leave a good one.

Make yer mind up, then get in touch with her either way.
 
"I had a lovely time last night, I am sorry i left so abruptly and i hope i didnt offend you by doing so. I was really embarrassed i got so drunk so quickly and did not want to embarrass myself further so decided it best i left. I hope i didnt ruin our relationship as i really had a good time and you looked stunning"

This, but finish with "p.s. I am gay."

You can always trust Homer for relationship advice when you're in a tight spot.
 
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