Should I send a message to this girl

Jono8 · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:31

I hope for your sake that she is taller than your previous super hot chinese girlfriend.

Craterloads · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:32

and I'm not really that interested.

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thedinks · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:37

If your not going to message her can I have her number???

Phantom Shadow · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:39

Do you have to see her again? If you work with her or see her regularly then you should apologise.

Theophany · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:39

Mr. Pickle said:
I was thinking

'Thanks for the drinks last night. Sorry Im not used to drinking such strong drinks, I can't really remember but I hope I wasn't rude when I left. See you soon.'

Kind of sounds needy though

Do you have Aspergers or Austism?

Legit question.

thep02 · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:43

Mr. Pickle said:
I was thinking

'Thanks for the drinks last night. Sorry Im not used to drinking such strong drinks, I can't really remember but I hope I wasn't rude when I left. See you soon.'

Kind of sounds needy though

Say you'd been busy that day and had a few cheap energy drinks which made you feel sick and queasy, offer to take her out for a meal by way of apologies, don't text, talk she'll respect your bravery.

Storm3y · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:53

Just leave it, sounds like you were a complete idiot. She's probably better off IMO.

Mr. Pickle · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:55

Theophany said:
Do you have Aspergers or Austism?

Legit question.

I dont get whats wrong with that

You must all be weird if you legitimately think that other message suggestion where I say I hope I didnt ruin our relationship and I didnt want to embarass myself is actually a good idea. Its the most needy thing I can think of and it wasnt even a proper date anyway and im not in any sort of relationship with her

Ive known her for 1 year already

Jono8 · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:57

Mr. Pickle said:
I dont get whats wrong with that

You must all be weird if you legitimately think that other message suggestion where I say I hope I didnt ruin our relationship and I didnt want to embarass myself is actually a good idea. Its the most needy thing I can think of and it wasnt even a proper date anyway and im not in any sort of relationship with her

Ive known her for 1 year already

Are you interested in having any sort of relationship (physical or otherwise) with her or not?

[TW]Sponge · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:57

How can you possibly expect advice without pics?

BuffetSlayer · 8 Jun 2014 at 14:58

OP - stop being lame.

Man up - call her and apologise for your behaviour (do not text).

Either way you cut it, getting drunk partly on her dime, then not even bothering to listen to what she is talking about is rude. Then just leaving abruptly compounds the issue.

The best thing you can do is be totally honest with yourself, and with her about why you behaved in the way you did.

Then take it from there.

Efour · 8 Jun 2014 at 15:01

you got chatted up by a 20 year old woman? AMIRIGHT?

If you like her you call/text/message/poo through letterbox with post it note on it and see just how deep the rabbit hole goes.

If you do not like her do none of the above and carry on with your life and her as a freind.

elmarko · 8 Jun 2014 at 15:01

Is the OP still drunk?

Theophany · 8 Jun 2014 at 15:03

Efour said:
call/text/message/poo through letterbox with post it note on it and see just how deep the rabbit hole goes.

We could be so happy together.

AndyCroft1982 · 8 Jun 2014 at 15:07

TBH i have done something similar to the OP, I had met up with some mates after being away for a few years, hadnt eaten all day and had to play catch up. Was downing doubles like soft drinks and before i was too drunk manage to chat up a decent looking older woman (who said she was married to a labour MP lol) anyways ended up kissing and all that. Obviously didnt think i was that drunk so carried on the doubles. Went out side for a smoke and ended up barfing my guts up next to a bin. The woman i was with, whilst i was chucking my guts up outside, thought it was the best time to ask me if i wanted to go home with her. WHilst i could barely stand up and being sick thought it best if i declined the classy lady and best head home rather than making some more pavement pizza lol.

The only difference is i couldnt remember what she looked like so i thought it best not to get in touch again lol that and she was married to a labour mp

antijoke · 8 Jun 2014 at 15:10

Just send her a message asking what's she up to at the moment and see what happens.

You did act like a douche but you might be able to salvage something.

Tuppy_Glossop · 8 Jun 2014 at 15:14

Sounds like she harvests cherries.

mattyprice4004 · 8 Jun 2014 at 15:35

ITT: OP discovers he's bent.
There was nothing wrong with the message suggested, Theo is right - she was gagging for it, and you buggered off. Not cool.

Atlas23 · 8 Jun 2014 at 15:41

As a great man once said (albeit in a different thread)

Efour said:
Have you tried World of Warcraft?

Mr. Pickle · 8 Jun 2014 at 16:22

AndyCroft1982 said:
TBH i have done something similar to the OP, I had met up with some mates after being away for a few years, hadnt eaten all day and had to play catch up. Was downing doubles like soft drinks and before i was too drunk manage to chat up a decent looking older woman (who said she was married to a labour MP lol) anyways ended up kissing and all that. Obviously didnt think i was that drunk so carried on the doubles. Went out side for a smoke and ended up barfing my guts up next to a bin. The woman i was with, whilst i was chucking my guts up outside, thought it was the best time to ask me if i wanted to go home with her. WHilst i could barely stand up and being sick thought it best if i declined the classy lady and best head home rather than making some more pavement pizza lol.

The only difference is i couldnt remember what she looked like so i thought it best not to get in touch again lol that and she was married to a labour mp

Thats not really at all similar