Should I send a message to this girl

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Mr. Pickle said:
She just sent me a message saying it was nice to meet up with me and hopes we could repeat it sometime

She is too old for me but she is really nice and quite attractive, so u know what I mean

Ive never really asked a girl on a date before and im not sure i want to, I think she probably just wants to be friends

Like in the past 2 months Ive been to dinner 3 times with different groups of girls who invited me to their place for dinner. None of them were dates I dont think

Once a girl in a similar situation that I really liked asked me to go for dinner with her, then I called her a few days later to confirm it and she said she was busy right now, I never bothered to call her back and she didnt call me so I didnt go and tbh I dont really want to go through the embarassement again

Usually I just ignore it when I think girls are doing things that probably indicate interest because I think Im probably just imagining it. So I dont ever really try to be forward with any girls and just carry on talking normally. The worst thing u can do is be needy

Actually the only other time Ive ever tried to be forward with a girl is with one of her flatmates (of the girl in OP) who I met and for some reason I thought it would be a good idea to ask for her number just before i left so that we could continue talking some other time, she said something about not having her phone on her so I just said 'oh well' and said goodbye and then went home. The next day one of her other flatmates saw me and gave me her number on a bit of paper cos she said that she regretted not giving it to me but I never called it
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Wow.
 
Mr. Pickle said:
She just sent me a message saying it was nice to meet up with me and hopes we could repeat it sometime

She is too old for me but she is really nice and quite attractive, so u know what I mean

Ive never really asked a girl on a date before and im not sure i want to, I think she probably just wants to be friends

Like in the past 2 months Ive been to dinner 3 times with different groups of girls who invited me to their place for dinner. None of them were dates I dont think

Once a girl in a similar situation that I really liked asked me to go for dinner with her, then I called her a few days later to confirm it and she said she was busy right now, I never bothered to call her back and she didnt call me so I didnt go and tbh I dont really want to go through the embarassement again

Usually I just ignore it when I think girls are doing things that probably indicate interest because I think Im probably just imagining it. So I dont ever really try to be forward with any girls and just carry on talking normally. The worst thing u can do is be needy

Actually the only other time Ive ever tried to be forward with a girl is with one of her flatmates (of the girl in OP) who I met and for some reason I thought it would be a good idea to ask for her number just before i left so that we could continue talking some other time, she said something about not having her phone on her so I just said 'oh well' and said goodbye and then went home. The next day one of her other flatmates saw me and gave me her number on a bit of paper cos she said that she regretted not giving it to me but I never called it
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Aren't you just the little stud muffin lol treat em mean keep em keen :). If you don't like her why am I on page 5 already lol
 
Mr. Pickle said:
Once a girl in a similar situation that I really liked asked me to go for dinner with her, then I called her a few days later to confirm it and she said she was busy right now, I never bothered to call her back and she didnt call me so I didnt go and tbh I dont really want to go through the embarassement again
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You were embarrassed because someone changed their mind ? :confused: You need to spend more time with people and less on your computer. Learn how people interact and learn how to deal with people's idiosyncracies.
 
Mr. Pickle said:
Well my success rate so far with girls is 0%
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do you want a GF? are you a virgin? this woman is interested in a relationship the whole forum can see it stop being a noob and at least meet up with her again even if it's just to the cinema.

if you like her show it don't be scared of rejection as in this scenario the odds are stupidly low.

oh and sex is easy so don't be scared, just get drunk a bit first if you think it's going to happen the rest comes naturally and at your age you should have watched enough blue movies to et a general idea of what you are doing.


go find an aspie test on google cos i'm sure theophany is right and you are not NT.
I'm not NT but I'm not blind to the obvious
 
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Mr. Pickle said:
She just sent me a message saying it was nice to meet up with me and hopes we could repeat it sometime

She is too old for me but she is really nice and quite attractive, so u know what I mean

Ive never really asked a girl on a date before and im not sure i want to, I think she probably just wants to be friends

Like in the past 2 months Ive been to dinner 3 times with different groups of girls who invited me to their place for dinner. None of them were dates I dont think

Once a girl in a similar situation that I really liked asked me to go for dinner with her, then I called her a few days later to confirm it and she said she was busy right now, I never bothered to call her back and she didnt call me so I didnt go and tbh I dont really want to go through the embarassement again

Usually I just ignore it when I think girls are doing things that probably indicate interest because I think Im probably just imagining it. So I dont ever really try to be forward with any girls and just carry on talking normally. The worst thing u can do is be needy

Actually the only other time Ive ever tried to be forward with a girl is with one of her flatmates (of the girl in OP) who I met and for some reason I thought it would be a good idea to ask for her number just before i left so that we could continue talking some other time, she said something about not having her phone on her so I just said 'oh well' and said goodbye and then went home. The next day one of her other flatmates saw me and gave me her number on a bit of paper cos she said that she regretted not giving it to me but I never called it
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The worst thing you can do is nothing! You ask a girl for her number, she later gives it to you and you don't call her: opportunity missed. What happens if it goes badly? You have a bad feeling for a few days. So what. If it goes well, you get laid or even get a nice gf out of it. With girls (provided you don't see them every day) there is pretty much nil consequence to striking out so you might as well swing. You're overthinking all of this. What kind of girl invites a dude out for drinks and then follows up with a "let's do it again sometime" text if she isn't interested?
 
I dont usually say this but: Well trolled Mr Pickle. Poker face. Stone cold humour.

You cant be for real.
 
Op if she's struck you as kind tell her your predicament and resulting embarrassment and she might help you out, girls often like it when we take them into our trust plus there's the inquisitiveness factor.

Well played if it's a troll, it's right on the edge of believability.
 
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arknor said:
do you want a GF? are you a virgin? this woman is interested in a relationship the whole forum can see it stop being a noob and at least meet up with her again even if it's just to the cinema.

if you like her show it don't be scared of rejection as in this scenario the odds are stupidly low.

oh and sex is easy so don't be scared, just get drunk a bit first if you think it's going to happen the rest comes naturally and at your age you should have watched enough blue movies to et a general idea of what you are doing.


go find an aspie test on google cos i'm sure theophany is right and you are not NT.
I'm not NT but I'm not blind to the obvious
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I will see her again cos she works in the pub I go to

I dont want her as a GF cos shes too old for me but she is very nice so I think I should try to get some experience in a real life dating scenario. I mean I talk to some girls and I have sometimes been round their houses for dinner like I said but I never did anything or ever tried to be forward with them

I just replied to her saying yes lets do it again sometime, what are u doing this week, also told her im going to the pub quiz on tuesday
 
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