Should I send a message to this girl

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Too old at 31??? srsly?!
As someone else said, prime age for a woman...
She definitely likes you - use it to get some experience in dating/ shagging, just don't string her along if she is so 'lovely' and you are not really interested. It's not fair on her.
 
One of these people is Tom Cruise. The other is the OP.

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Does she have kids? Does she want them any time soon? If the answer is no then forget the age thing. It doesn't matter. My current missus is 30 and I'm 26 (and that isn't the biggest age difference I have experienced). You get a few comments from people to start with, but after a few months, nobody cares and you all forget about it. Women are generally more sensible and realistic with their expectations than girls. You date a 19 year old, she'll be expecting to be swept off her feet by Prince Charming. You date a 31 year old and she's probably just looking for company with the possibility of it leading further if you are right for each other. To be honest, older women are so much more chilled out, and far better in the sack.
 
Mr. Pickle said:
She just sent me a message saying it was nice to meet up with me and hopes we could repeat it sometime

She is too old for me but she is really nice and quite attractive, so u know what I mean

Ive never really asked a girl on a date before and im not sure i want to, I think she probably just wants to be friends

Like in the past 2 months Ive been to dinner 3 times with different groups of girls who invited me to their place for dinner. None of them were dates I dont think

Once a girl in a similar situation that I really liked asked me to go for dinner with her, then I called her a few days later to confirm it and she said she was busy right now, I never bothered to call her back and she didnt call me so I didnt go and tbh I dont really want to go through the embarassement again

Usually I just ignore it when I think girls are doing things that probably indicate interest because I think Im probably just imagining it. So I dont ever really try to be forward with any girls and just carry on talking normally. The worst thing u can do is be needy

Actually the only other time Ive ever tried to be forward with a girl is with one of her flatmates (of the girl in OP) who I met and for some reason I thought it would be a good idea to ask for her number just before i left so that we could continue talking some other time, she said something about not having her phone on her so I just said 'oh well' and said goodbye and then went home. The next day one of her other flatmates saw me and gave me her number on a bit of paper cos she said that she regretted not giving it to me but I never called it
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You are so lucky. SO many men would prefer if the woman is forward and asks the man out, and you had more than once AND YOU SAID NO TO THEM ALL?! WTF?! Seriously dude...
Mr. Pickle said:
I will see her again cos she works in the pub I go to

I dont want her as a GF cos shes too old for me but she is very nice so I think I should try to get some experience in a real life dating scenario. I mean I talk to some girls and I have sometimes been round their houses for dinner like I said but I never did anything or ever tried to be forward with them

I just replied to her saying yes lets do it again sometime, what are u doing this week, also told her im going to the pub quiz on tuesday
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Well, at least you replied to her and stopped playing for a bit :p

If you don;t want it to go further and remain friends, tell her.
if you want more, tell her.

Be honest. Don't faff about.

Also, I have a mental image of this girl. Can we have pics so I can see if I was right? Ty
 
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