I still get them but very rarely as I get older.
most of them aren't real just like concious dreams, but a few are, it feels like minutes but It's probably just seconds.
a partner asked why I was wiggling and toes and fingers one morning over a year ago, but it's all I can move when it happens, I don't know if it helps but I assume it gets your blood flowing a bit faster.
probably 70% + of the time you will notice something is different in your room just a tiny detail like a gap in the curtains or whatever and realise it was just some weird awakening dream