So he passed away in his sleep last night...

It hurts, and we only had him 6 months, i move din with my mum in sep so ive had 3 months with him, still, he was lovely, he loved me, does my head in though as he was a gorgeous cat, i dont show my feelings much and i tend to get over things because i blank them out, ive just lost my dog of around 10 years, easily one of the worst things imaginable, she was my dog, she loved me, alsation, long haired, soft as hell, always came in my room on an evening, sprawled out infront of the warm cupbard, i loved her like a sister..

Its crap, 2 within 3 months...

Load of crap, i love animals but this spurs me into not wanting any more, too much bloody pain, and especialy as they dont live as long as humans... more bloody pain to go through.

Anyway, on the upside... erm...

Yeah no real upside to be honest.

Be orite soon. Make sme happy that people take the time to say nice things, that helps a lot.
 
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Hi James,

All of us need to remember that loved ones, be they human or pet, are only "on loan" to us. At some point they will be gone.

This is why it is so important, in my opinion at least, to treasure our loved ones as much as possible.

I have lost my parents, many much-loved pets and a few friends too.

In a few days time you will probably re-consider your view on not wanting any more animals.

Your love, and the love of your family, for however long (or short) will give your future pets happiness and contentment which they might not otherwsie have.

Grief is a natural emotion, go with it. Trust me, it does get easier...
 
James07 said:
ive just lost my dog of around 10 years, easily one of the worst things imaginable, she was my dog, she loved me, alsation, long haired, soft as hell, always came in my room on an evening, sprawled out infront of the warm cupbard, i loved her like a sister..
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:eek: again, very sorry to hear that too!!! i love alsations!! i have one as well, soft as hell, best dogs ever!! so so loyal, again like yours, he loves to be around us, love him like a brother tbh.
 
My condolences man, being a cat owner myself I know how you must feel.
One of my cats (have 5), got hit by a car while crossing the road and his brother simply dissappeared after that so double the loss.
In time though you would wish to have another cat, dealing with death is just something you have to get used to.
 
James07, I am so sorry to hear that.

He looks gorgeous on that pic. Bet he was a lovely cat. He looks very much like my lovely Courtney who died a week ago today aged 14. I know exactly how you feel as I am missing my little puss terribly.
 
He was lovely, missing him already, walked in this evening and he wasnt infront of the fire like usual.. crap tbh..
 
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