So I've been offered no strings...

PiKe

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From my ex gf, we still see each other once a week to see a film but purely on a friend basis, today she has suggested that maybe we should become 'buddies', neither of us are seeing anyone or getting any, and we know we're 'clean'.

I'm thinking it's not exactly wise but lets hear your opinions, maybe you've been in a similar situation?

Please try to refrain from any pastries.
 
Yeah that’ll not work. Sooner or later one of you will get that ‘urge’ and make a move that’ll only spell trouble. If you think you can resist and she’ll respect that, and then go for it.

If you or her are expecting this as a way to try and re-kindle a past relationship, then tread carefully. Been there done that, it never really works out. They are ex’s for a reason….
 
You've been offered no strings attached access and you are asking people for advice on a forum largely dedicated to PC nerdiness?

WHAT THE HELL MAN?!
 
It'll end in tears.

One of you will end up with "feelings".. namely her :o
 
Depends how serious your relationship was i would think.

Seeing as neither of you sound like your actively looking. Id say do it (a lot) :D
 
this thread, the OP and his entire life is fail.

Of course you should do it! She's the chick, she might be the one to get re-emotionally attached, that might be a good thing? If not, then's the time to kick her into touch
 
PiKe said:
It's not that at all, I'm not the kind of person to gloat, I just want genuine honest advise.
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Fair enough.

OK, it depends on your past relationship and the reasons it ended, was it seriouse? were you very into each other? did it end badly?

If you were serious, then it may be a bad idea.
If you were very into each other, but not very serious, it may be a good idea.
If it ended badly, it is a bad idea all around.



As above, it is never "no strings", there are always strings and they almost always have hooks.
 
Yeah but instead of thinking with his penis, he should be thinking – ‘why did we split in the first place’ although everyone needs sex. Better then paying for it, and as he says they are both clean, or at least could be… but its really only a path to ruin to be honest.

I did this for a while with a lass… Years ago, she was a bit older then me. In the end, I wanted to get a relationship going again, she wanted easy sex and I got my heart broken…… All too easy.

Unless he really doesn't have any attachment to her, and her feelings are only of sex, then ok it might work..!! Just seems like masturbation with another woman, as if there is no feeling, and no strings how can it mean anything other then getting your rocks off?? Hardly meaningful, is it?

Still, as I said. We do need sex, but its better to make love then just shoot your load and walk away..!!
 
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